Reasons why dating the ‘Baddest’ in town is a bad idea

Normally, very few people would like to be in a relationship with a grouchy individual. Who wants to deal with the incessant moodiness and dour posture?

Most people would rather be with people who know how to have a good time –the baddest, coolest gang.

Regardless of how much spice fun-loving partners bring to relationships and life in general, sometimes they are not as awesome as they are cracked up to be.

These are five reasons why it isn’t always great to date the baddest partner in town:

·      If you are the kind of person who has a lot of drama going on in your life, what you really need is someone who helps keep the drama at level that is safe for both you and the people you interact with on a daily basis. As such, you need a partner who knows how to look at issues with some level of seriousness, at least 70% of the time. Fun-seekers may not be able to help sort out your life when you really need them to.

·      You could end up being the one making all the sound financial decisions in the relationship. What your partner may be interested in is going on one adventure after the other, which could grate on your nerves quite strongly.

·      At the beginning of the relationship, your partner’s lifestyle will be enthralling because a whole new world seems to have been opened up to you. With time however, you may not be able to keep up with their escapades and they may see that as a sign of your lack of interest in them, which may not be the case.

·      Fun-loving people can turn out to be loose talkers. Who knows how many of your intimate secrets will roll off your partner’s tongue when they have had a drink or two? And you probably cannot tell them how their actions hurt you, they might just dismiss it and say ‘it was only a joke, luv’

·      There is a bigger room for jealousy, that green-eyed monster, to rear its head. Your partner will have too many friends they hang out with late into the night; you may not have what it takes, emotionally, to dismiss every one of those friends as ‘just a mere friend’.

Common Signs that shows when A girl wants you

It’s not at all uncommon to hear men talk about how difficult – or impossible – it is to understand women. The same is true for what women say about men, of course, but this time the idea is to lend a hand to men who may be trying to determine if a particular women is interested in being more than just friends. There are subtle signals that women often use, even without realizing it, that might be an indication that she has more than just a passing interest in you. When you know what to watch for, it will be a lot easier to figure out whether or not there may be a future with her or not. Her are a few behaviors to watch for that are often a good indication that she wants to be more than friends.

#1 She touches you
If she seems like she’s taking advantage of opportunities to touch you during normal conversation, there’s a good chance she’s into you. It could be something as simple as gently touching your arm or shoulder when she’s laughing at something you say or when she’s telling you about something. It’s unlikely that a woman is going to be putting her hands on some dude that she does not have any interest in at all.

#2 First date appearance
If she’s someone you have spent a fair amount of time with before going on on a “real” date with, the way she fixes herself up for that first date could be a clue. If she’s usually a jeans-and-tee-shirt kind of gal and she shows up for your first date wearing a sexy dress, high heels and more make-up than usual, there’s a darn good chance she wants to make a good impression, and wants that date to be just the first of many.

#3 The copy cat
Again, here’s a situation where you’ll usually have to spend some time around her before you pick up on this because it may not be all that noticeable at first. If you’re the kind of guy who uses a certain word or phrase a lot, like “that’s sweet” and you begin to notice that she’s started to use it a lot as well, that could be one of those little signs that she’s got eyes for you. You can even test it out by adapting a new phrase or word that you overuse a bit and see if she follows suit.

#4 First conversation
A first conversation can tell you a great deal about how she feels about you. If it’s kind of awkward and brief, she just may not have any interest. She could also be super shy, but it should not be that hard to tell just by watching her body language. On the other hand, if she seems like she wants to keep talking and is asking you lots of questions about you, there’s an excellent chance that there is some interest there.

#5 Calls out of the blue
If she starts calling you a lot just to chat and not for any specific purpose, she may be hoping she can get more involved. She’ll tend to do this a lot when she’s bored and wants someone to talk to. If yours is the number she dials most often, you’ll probably have a good chance of getting something started with her if you want to.

#6 Changing opinions
Here’s a sign that’s nearly foolproof. If you have heard her say she doesn’t like something, or know that she doesn’t because one of her friends has told you and then, she suddenly likes it when you bring it up in coversation, that’s a major signal. For example, you may hear her talking to one of her friends and hear her say she dislikes Thai food but later when she hears you talk about going out for some Thai food she seems all interested and says she really likes it. That’s pretty much an open invitation to ask her out if you want to.

#7 Body language
These signs tend to be a little more subtle and less reliable than some other signs, but there is decent chance they could be sings that she likes you. She licks her lips, plays with her hair, or tilts her head slightly when she talks to you. These are the kinds of little signals that are best used when other signs that she’s interested in you are present, because by themselves, they may not mean all that much.

#8 Happy hour
If a woman sends you a drink, that’s about as close as she can get to standing up on a table and screaming for you to come talk to her because she things you’re hot. If you’re at all interested, you’d be a fool to ignore that invitation and you may as well just go home and get used to the idea of being by yourself all your life.

#9. Greetings by proxy
When a gal’s friend comes to you and says that her friend wanted her to say “hi” to you for her, that’s another pretty reliable signal that there’s more than just casual interest in play. She’s definitely not going to go out of her way to ask her friend to pass along a greeting like that if she has no interest in you at all. If she thinks you’re a loser, you’re never going to be on the receiving end of a greeting like that!

#10 Late night
If you are spending time with her and she never seems like she wants to be the one that says she needs to get home, she’s probably thinking she’d like to see your relationship turn into something more serious. If you find that you’re always the one that has to say you’re ready to call it a night before she does, she’s definitely enjoying your company a lot.

Signs That Guy Only Wants Your Body

Once in a while it is necessary to talk about these things, CAMPUS ROMANCE.  because whether you like it or not, relationships are bound to develop between people, especially youths in KSU/PAAU. So how do you know if all a guy wants is sex? Here we have written out 10 signs, believe me, there are many more:

1. He only texts you at Night  

When he texts around this time, after ignoring you all day, it is most likely because he is in bed and horny. Usually the conversation starts with what are you wearing. Then he asks for pictures, and starts subtly sexting you. Watch out, that right there is a booty call.

2. He invites you to watch movies in his house.

Can we see a movie together? Usually he means ‘can we have sex?’ So, during the movie, he starts making advances, this is fairly common. But if you reject his advances, and he gets angry or frustrated, then you better leave him alone with his movie.

3. You never meet his friends. The less information you have about him, the easier it is for him to ghost you. If you don’t know who he hangs out with, or where he lives, or what his last name is, he can disappear like a phantom into the night. A phantom who banged you a bunch of times and then stopped answering texts, which would make for a shittier Broadway play than the kind of phantom that hangs out in operas. But a phantom nonetheless.

4. He makes it really hard for you to sleep over. He never straight-up says you have to leave (That wouldn’t get him a next hookup!) but he always has a “thing” really early the next morning. A “thing with friends” or “a work thing” or “some family thing.” You know families don’t have picnics at 5 a.m. though.

5. He always hands you everything before you leave. Did you forget your bra? Some lipstick? Your purse? A single bobby pin? If you never forget anything there, you can never have an excuse to show up when he doesn’t want you to. If you tried to show up unsolicited anyway, you’d probably find the place abandoned and boarded up, and some neighbor would tell you, “Why, that place has been abandoned for years!” like some episode of Are You Afraid of the Dark.

6. You’ve never been on a real date. Dates are for men who consider themselves boyfriends, not men who consider themselves fuck buddies.

7. He always insists on splitting the cost of the post-coital pizza you ordered. If one of you doesn’t pay for the pizza, it can’t be considered a date. He will follow #6 if it kills him.

8. He’s “busy” whenever you text him about something personal or emotional. Who has time to pause his game of Madden to talk to you about things like how you feel? If your text about your grandma passing away isn’t attached to a sexy picture, he won’t even bother opening it. Guys who just want you for sex aren’t going to spend time playing the boyfriend.

9. He always tries to initiate sex when you hang out. An easy way to tell the difference between guys who like having sex with you a lot and guys who only like having sex with you is this: Think back to a time when the two of you were together but weren’t having sex for more than an hour. If you can’t do that, he only wants you for sex.

10. The only thing he’s ever bought you that could be considered romantic is a vibrating cock ring. He was like, “Hey, I have a surprise for you,” and you could hear a faint vibration, and he dropped his pants and honestly expected you to be pumped about it.

The 6 Definitions Of Love That Everyone Should Know

People say love is pure, painful, sweet, and dreadful — all at once. The truth is, love is a basic necessity in everyone’s life. Everyone needs to be loved to live a proper and healthy life. Love has various definitions. Ask someone and they will give you their own definition of love. Love is a variety of feelings, emotions, and attitude. For some love is more than just being interested physically in someone, it’s an emotional attachment.

  

Love is more of a feeling that a person feels for another person. People often confuse love and lust. Love means to be deeply committed and connected to someone or something. The basic meaning of love is to feel more than liking towards someone. It is a bond that two people share

1. Love is never rushing into relationships 

Give time to yourself and your partner. Take things slow. Know their likes and dislikes. Analyze that would you be willing to share a common bond in the following years. Every person has some habits that would be annoying to you. Think — would you be still sharing the same bond when you see the dark side of a person?

2. Love is not being jealous 

There is no room for jealousy and possessiveness in cases where true love is really there. Being protective is a part of a relationship, but there should be a healthy understanding. Being too much involved can make the other person suffocated in the relationship. They may be having an ex with whom they share an understanding as a friend, but it didn’t work out when they were dating. That is the reason they moved on and now are with you.

3. Love is giving yourself a chance

Just because you both had a conflict in opinion about something doesn’t mean things won’t work out. Give yourself a chance. Your perception and your partner’s perception may differ. Sometimes, that is what makes life exciting!

4. Love is to stop expecting

Stop expecting doesn’t mean to give up on you. But do not expect your partner to do things exactly what you thought they would be doing. It is not right. Your expectations in your relationship may be different from what your partner’s expectation of you is. Respect the fact that they are a little different from you. The more you try to change a person and try to make them act according to you, the less attached they will be with you.

5. Love is maintaining privacy

With social media readily available to share all your problems and people ready to jump to your rescue, we tend to discuss issues over the internet more than we do in person. Never do that. Maintain privacy in your relationship. Talk out the issues with your partner. Don’t use the platform of social media to complain about something that is wrong between you two. A little privacy to your relationship is required.

6. Love is avoiding misunderstandings

It is easy to have a misunderstanding when you have a conflict of opinion. Try to avoid it. Give a chance to let your partner put forward their point of view. If they are wrong, try talking to them about why you do think are they wrong. Don’t jump to conclusions and create a drama. This is very unhealthy to your relationship.
Ultimately, love is accepting the other person for who they are.  Encouraging your partner to achieve their dream and respecting each other is true love. True love is a divine feeling that gives a feeling of being complete. It is worth fighting and taking efforts for each other. Love is being there for each other through the thick and thin.  Love cannot be defined in words but can be expressed through actions. Love is being someone’s strength and love can be found in small gestures.

3 TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE IN PAAU

 There are some Types Of Relationships You Should Never Have In School, especially in the University. As universities are hotbeds for all kinds of relationships, good and bad, from everlasting true love to an awkward one-night stands originated from a dinner party. You might have made mistakes, you might not. Either ways, here are the list of things and people not to do in terms of relationships in the university.

1. Do Not Have A Relationship with your lecturer

It’s quite understandable that at times, you might be attracted to the person imparting wisdom and learning to you on a daily basis. There are all too many occasions for attraction to blossom; seminars where everyone else is too hungover to turn up, or the aptly named “personal” tutorials. Relationships between faculty members and students are pretty common, and rarely prohibited by universities. But most relationships you have at school aren’t going to end happily ever after. Most likely, if you get into a relationship with your tutor or lecturer, it will implode at some point, and you’ll have to endure the awkwardness and pain of forced
contact with an ex who still holds the position of power over you that was so attractive in the first
place. Or, worse, you’ll just hit on a lecturer when drunk on free departmental wine, be rejected, and have to spend the next three years studiously avoiding them, and never ever taking any of their courses

2.Do Not Have A Relationship with your lodge/flat mate

Having a relationship with someone you already live with escalates everything; you can get close really quickly, but that makes it harder if you then split up. “ Don’t do it“– else you want someone to be visiting you day in day out, all days, which will instigate some things to happen and definitely make you both get tired of each other really
quickly.

3. Do Not Have A Relationship with a sabbatical officer

Sabbatical officers are students who take a year off between or directly after their studies to take on key positions in the student union. Relationships between students and people like this might not immediately seem particularly ill-advised, and you do get a kind of second-hand power rush from dating someone vaguely important. But when it ends, and there’s a cardboard cut out of your ex that creepily guards the entrance to your uni, it becomes peculiarly painful. As are all the emails, the weird pictures of them dressed up in a novelty reindeer costume, and the realization that it’s very hard to get over someone when they’re around all the time.

5 CATEGORIES OF BIG BOYS IN PAAU……

 BIG BOYS WITH THE “BIG BRAINS”

These are basically the type of guys that give all their attentions to their studies. Other students (both male and female) are always seen flocking
around them because they’re gurus and they
always have one or two things to tell you that you don’t even have an idea about. Things like emm… Well things you probably don’t know anyway. If you ask, you might as well find out right? Isn’t that why they are called “Genius”? I love to refer them as freaks though. No hard feelings. They make me freak out and feel intimidated. I just don’t give them the pleasure of seeing that expression on my face back to those nerds. Most of the time, they occupy positions such as presidents, class-reps or the head of whatever organization they are in. Don’t get it twisted, some are quite good looking. I’m not gay tho, just saying in respect to views of my female friends.

BIG BOYS WITH “NO CASH” IN POCKETS

These are the type of guys you see repping the hood on daily basis. Academics don’t have their full attention, having fun is just their thing. They are either in school to submit an assignment, meet up with that lecturer who is always taking attendance or showcasing their fresh kicks (kicks, meaning their clothes, shoes or accessories…which they might have borrowed money to get). The F**ked up thing is that most of these guys have no money in their pockets let alone account. You will always find them where there is a party and the food is FREE!!!. They are always looking for a way to get extra cash from their school fees by jailing (lying about the school fees) their parents. Funny thing is, these are the type of guys that run entertainment cliques, clubs and so on….. I have a very good friend in this category named Usi Joseph who is a fresh, funny and broke nigga all together.

BIG BOYS DOING “BIG IN STARCH”

These set of big boys can be seen in every category meaning they may be brilliant or dull, it all depends. One distinctive character with these type of big boys is that they don’t joke with starch. The type of starch they use can’t even be gotten in Abuja, it has to be from those place where cassava production is high…lol!! With their well tailored, ironed and starched shirt, you just unanimously believe these guys are big boys. I always respect ma nigga Osho Klinsman. He dey everly starch shirt even with e boxers.

BIG BOYS WITH A BRIGHT FUTURE IN
“DRUG DEALING”

Whew’… coedine people
This category of students are said to live in the “ wilderness“. They smoke weed day in day out, forming bad guys up and down, bullying people. These ones are basically wasting their parents’ money in school. I’m way better than these ones, I know that for sure. They are the type of students you see in the examination hall and say to yourself “so this one is even in my
department??” like are you freaking kidding me?
They just show up!!! Anyway, these guys don’t care! They are probably anticipating a future of that of “Ghost” in the Tv Series, “Power”.

BIG BOYS LIKE THE “GREAT GATSBY”

I hope you have seen the movie, “Great Gatsby” by Leonardo di Carpio. Well, back to the point, these are the type of guys that have a bit of everything. They don’t miss classes and they are always on the top of their academics. They are neat, classy, have selective friends. To an extent, some other
students usually regard them as proud people (well me am proud sha). These types of students usually don’t make a first class but they are always very close. Another admirable thing is, they are hard working and can keep a balance between every activities they find themselves in. Most of them are Entrepreneurs as they try to think beyond what’s being taught in a classroom, thereby exposing themselves to the events of the real world. Forgive me if it’s like I’m hyping this category of guys cos I’m part of them but jezz!!! It’s the fact. I think girls should pick their boyfriends amongst these ones.

More on girls coming soon…………


J.L.O

5 CATEGORIES OF BIG BOYS IN PAAU……

 BIG BOYS WITH THE “BIG BRAINS”

These are basically the type of guys that give all their attentions to their studies. Other students (both male and female) are always seen flocking
around them because they’re gurus and they
always have one or two things to tell you that you don’t even have an idea about. Things like emm… Well things you probably don’t know anyway. If you ask, you might as well find out right? Isn’t that why they are called “Genius”? I love to refer them as freaks though. No hard feelings. They make me freak out and feel intimidated. I just don’t give them the pleasure of seeing that expression on my face back to those nerds. Most of the time, they occupy positions such as presidents, class-reps or the head of whatever organization they are in. Don’t get it twisted, some are quite good looking. I’m not gay tho, just saying in respect to views of my female friends.

BIG BOYS WITH “NO CASH” IN POCKETS

These are the type of guys you see repping the hood on daily basis. Academics don’t have their full attention, having fun is just their thing. They are either in school to submit an assignment, meet up with that lecturer who is always taking attendance or showcasing their fresh kicks (kicks, meaning their clothes, shoes or accessories…which they might have borrowed money to get). The F**ked up thing is that most of these guys have no money in their pockets let alone account. You will always find them where there is a party and the food is FREE!!!. They are always looking for a way to get extra cash from their school fees by jailing (lying about the school fees) their parents. Funny thing is, these are the type of guys that run entertainment cliques, clubs and so on….. I have a very good friend in this category named Usi Joseph who is a fresh, funny and broke nigga all together.

BIG BOYS DOING “BIG IN STARCH”

These set of big boys can be seen in every category meaning they may be brilliant or dull, it all depends. One distinctive character with these type of big boys is that they don’t joke with starch. The type of starch they use can’t even be gotten in Abuja, it has to be from those place where cassava production is high…lol!! With their well tailored, ironed and starched shirt, you just unanimously believe these guys are big boys. I always respect ma nigga Osho Klinsman. He dey everly starch shirt even with e boxers.

BIG BOYS WITH A BRIGHT FUTURE IN
“DRUG DEALING”

Whew’… coedine people
This category of students are said to live in the “ wilderness“. They smoke weed day in day out, forming bad guys up and down, bullying people. These ones are basically wasting their parents’ money in school. I’m way better than these ones, I know that for sure. They are the type of students you see in the examination hall and say to yourself “so this one is even in my
department??” like are you freaking kidding me?
They just show up!!! Anyway, these guys don’t care! They are probably anticipating a future of that of “Ghost” in the Tv Series, “Power”.

BIG BOYS LIKE THE “GREAT GATSBY”

I hope you have seen the movie, “Great Gatsby” by Leonardo di Carpio. Well, back to the point, these are the type of guys that have a bit of everything. They don’t miss classes and they are always on the top of their academics. They are neat, classy, have selective friends. To an extent, some other
students usually regard them as proud people (well me am proud sha). These types of students usually don’t make a first class but they are always very close. Another admirable thing is, they are hard working and can keep a balance between every activities they find themselves in. Most of them are Entrepreneurs as they try to think beyond what’s being taught in a classroom, thereby exposing themselves to the events of the real world. Forgive me if it’s like I’m hyping this category of guys cos I’m part of them but jezz!!! It’s the fact. I think girls should pick their boyfriends amongst these ones.

More on girls coming soon…………


J.L.O

10 Types of Guys Almost Every Woman Dates Before Finding The One -(Ksu boy and gal palava)

  Before they find The One, most women have experiences with a whole parade of Not The Ones. Although some of these guys are fun, you just know in your heart that they aren’t Mr. Right. But no woman’s dating life is complete without at least a few of these boyfriends to reminisce or laugh about when you’re old and gray.

1. The Hot Guy

This guy is super attractive. Women’s heads turn when youwalk into a party with him. It’s a great ego boost until you overhear people wondering why he’s with you. And you never thought of yourself as unattractive before! That’s relativity for you. Also, he focuses on going to the gym a little too much. Oh well, next.

2. The Cool Guy

This guy has heard of bands, beers, and even countries that you haven’t. He knows everything that’s on-trend, and you know by what he’s wearing right now what shoes guys will be wearing next year. To be honest, it’s a little exhausting to date him. You have to buy a whole new wardrobe and reevaluate your taste in music. So, you move on.

3. The Ambitious Guy

Your mom loves this one. He has an internship at an investment bank, then he becomes an analyst. Or else he’s in academics and on track to get his PhD before age 27. Either way, you barely ever see him. Sorry, Mom.

4. The Brilliant Guy

This guy reads three books a day and still has time to analyze the latest indie film. He excels at work and at leisure, but his leisure is basically reading books and being the smartest commenter on reddit. You leave when you start fantasizing about The Hot Guy again.



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5. The Guy Who Always Liked You

This is the guy who had a crush on you since 5th grade. You’ve always stayed friends and one day you gave in and made out with him. Now he is obsessed with you, but you’re still lukewarm on him. We know if this was a romantic comedy, you’d fall head over heels for him, but it’s not. So, you let him down gently and skedaddle.

6. The Partier

You met this guy at a party and ran into him at two other parties that month. When you started dating, you realized that this wasn’t fate at all; it’s just because he goes to every single party within a 20 mile radius. He’s also always wasted. You leave when you start stalking The Brilliant Guy on reddit.

7. The Perfect on Paper Guy

Your mom is excited about this one too. You find him online, or you’re set up by a mutual friend. He went to a great school, has a great job, is good looking and athletic. You don’t feel a spark on the first date, but you feel silly just ending things since he seems so great to everyone else. After a few weeks, you have to admit to yourself that you’re just not that into him. You try to let your mom down gently.

8. The Guy in a Band

This guy seems really awesome, especially when he writes a song about you. He seems less awesome when you realize that he’s 26 and considers his primary job to be playing guitar in his friend’s garage. Also, some other chick said that song was about her. He’s secretly happy when you end things, because it gives him inspiration for a breakup ballad.


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9. The Older Guy

It’s refreshing to be with someone who knows what restaurants are good. . . in Italy. He’s also a great kisser and very smart. You always feel like he’s on a different page, though, and he uses full sentences when texting. It starts to feel a little like texting with your dad, so you have to say arrivederci.

10. The One

Not a minute too soon, The One arrives on the scene. Smart, handsome, warm, honest, and kind, you know right away that you’re in love, but you don’t tell him until a few months in. Whereupon he says he knew you were The One for him right away too. Ah, love.


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Ten Types of Girls Every Guy Dates Before Meeting The One -(Ksu boy and gal palava)

  Guys, it is a tough dating world out there. There are loads of girls you have to go through before finding Ms. Right. Good thing you don’t particularly mind dating lots of different women. It will give you something to reflect back on when you’re old and not as devilishly handsome as you are right now. Let’s cover the different types of women you may meet on your road to eventual coupledom.

1. Daddy’s Girl

This girl may be 25, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t love to spend quality time with Daddy. In fact, not only does he financially subsidize her, but he’s also the first person she calls when her car breaks down, her boss yells at her, or she has an extra ticket to a concert. Hey wait a second; isn’t that supposed to be your role? Then there’s the time you find Daddy polishing his machete collection and staring at you. When you break up with the Daddy’s girl, she doesn’t seem to notice; she’s off to Tahoe to ski with Dad that weekend.

2. The Party Girl

This girl always knows where the party is. Not only that, but she has friends wherever you go, and they all have funny stories about that time she got wasted and made out with other people’s boyfriends. Then, what do you know, you find her in a closet doing the same thing when she was supposed to be in a relationship with you. You try to dump her but she’s too busy making out with that random guy to listen.


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Into a Potential Friendship 

3. The Straight A Student

This girl is super smart and it would be great to talk to her…if she ever had time to talk. Not only is she a straight A student but she’s involved in every activity on campus, whether she’s an undergrad or a grad student. She takes on extra work like it’s going out of style, and she’s more emotionally committed to her study group partners than to you. When you break up with her, she turns it into an excellent piece of nonfiction for her writing seminar and gets, of course, an A.

4. Miss Jealousy

“What did you really mean when you said ‘Nice shirt’ to your coworker at that party? What was nice about the shirt? Are you secretly in love with her? This reminds me of what you said last weekend to my sister, remember? ‘I like your car’. You meant you wanted to ride off with her somewhere private and put down the back seat, didn’t you? DIDN’T YOU?” You dump her by telling her you have a terminal illness because you’re scared of the repercussions.

5. Gossip Girl

This girl talks your ear off about her friend, her friend’s friend, her friend’s boyfriend’s friend, and that guy’s cousin. All of her stories seem to be about someone in a bad situation that your girlfriend can pretend to empathize with while she secretly acts better than them. You break up with her after you start fantasizing about Miss Jealousy, who was at least focused on you.

6. Your Mom’s Hopeful Daughter-in-law

This girl and your mom get along like gangbusters. Your mom drops hints about how it’s time to settle down, and your girlfriend talks about how awesome a listener your mom is. But, to be honest, your mom has more chemistry with this girl than you do. You start hanging out in the library hoping to run into The Straight A Student and let your mom break the news to your girlfriend gently.

6. The Anxiety Case

This girl is nervous and worried about everything. When you go on a snowboarding trip, she worries about you breaking your leg. When you eat quickly, she worries about you choking. When she is too nervous about flying to take a vacation with you, you find her a good therapist and say “hasta la vista”.

7. The Drama Queen

This girl is exciting, and it’s never boring to be around her. But soon you realize that it’s exhausting to ride her emotional roller coaster every day. After a few breakup/makeup cycles, you find yourself yearning for the anxiety case. At least she was consistent. When you break up with her, the scene is heart- wrenching. But it is strange how she starts dating that guy from her building the very next day.

8. The Trendsetter

You are not sure if what she is wearing is a shirt or a dress, or what exactly is up with her make-up, but you know whatever it is, it’s right on trend. This girl knows what’s in style months before everyone else. It’s great to think you landed someone so stylish and cutting edge, until she starts to throw out some of your favorite clothes in an attempt to make you edgier. You like your high school T-shirt collection, so you have to say goodbye.


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9. The Beauty Queen

This girl is so hot that you can’t believe you snagged her. Your friends are envious and guys’ heads turn when she walks into the room. It’s pretty cool, until you realize you don’t really have much to talk about, since you have nothing in common. You try to make it work anyway, until you realize that she isn’t being ironic with her taste in music. While you’re in the middle of breaking up with her, a guy drives up in a BMW and asks her on a date.

10. The One

This girl is smart, beautiful, sweet, and is so great that you mom forgets about the other girl she liked so much. She laughs at your jokes, and you laugh at hers. Your taste in music, movies, and books is weirdly similar, and her friends get along with your friends. You wonder what you did to deserve someone so wonderful. Oh right, it was dating all those other girls.


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ASUU Attacks JAMB Over New Admission Model

 The Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU), University of Ibadan chapter, has faulted the guidelines released by the Joint Admission and Matriculation Board (JAMB) for admission of candidates into Nigerian tertiary institutions stating that JAMB acted beyond its powers.

According to the union, the Senate of Nigerian Universities has the mandate to regulate admission modalities as each university has standards which are not subjected to the whims and caprices of any government appointee.

Speaking, the Chairman of the union, Dr. Deji Omole, said both the Minister of Education, Mallam Adamu Adamu, and JAMB Registrar, Prof. Dibu Ojerinde, first got it wrong by going against the administrative charges collected by institutions for post-UTME and later reversed their stand in their guidelines which he described as illegal and designed to favour children of the rich against the poor.

He mentioned that the point-based scoring system in the guidelines is not new as it has been used in UI 5 years ago and abandoned.

He equally stated that JAMB is only trying to cover up their inadequacies as its credibility is yearly queried.

He pointed out that last year candidates were pushed to private universities against their will and this year JAMB awarded 40 marks to some candidates without justification.

He further mentioned that with the stipulation on the current guidelines many candidates will be disadvantaged and JAMB would have succeeded in entrenching corruption and further kill tertiary education in the country.

Association Of VCs Denies Report That Screening Fee Is Now N2500

 The Association of Vice Chancellors of Nigerian Universities (AVCNU) through its Secretary-General, Prof. Michael Faborode, has denied reports credited to the association that the Federal Ministry of Education and other stakeholders in the tertiary education sub-sector have agreed on N2,500 as fee for post- Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination (post-UTME) screening.

According to him, it is not the duty of the association to make such pronouncement but that of the Ministry of Education.

He further stated that the whole story exhibits poor reportage, contains half-truth and conjectures, and represents very poor translation of the proper content of a written information as there was no way it was stated in the statement released by the association that Post-UTME is now N2,500 or that CBT has been scrapped.

What Your Sign Says About the Guys You Fall For- (Ksu boy and gal palava)

According to Redbookmag and Aurora Tower,this Is what your sign say about the kid of guys you fall for :

Aries

You usually find yourself coupled up with caring and charming guys (partly because you're pretty caring and charming yourself). Unfortunately, sometimes they want more of your time and energy than you are willing to give. Feel free to tell those guys to back up and defend your need for space. Or just block them on your phone. Either way.

Taurus

Passionate and purposeful guys catch your eye since you really admire men with a strong point of view. On the other hand, you're basically known for sticking to your own point of view until death, so god help them if they're as stubborn as you are. They'll probably have to move to another state.
 

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Gemini

You're basically a human thrill ride, so you love charismatic and adventurous guys. If a guy has a knack for taking risks and coming out on top (aka Chris Hemsworth in pretty much any movie ever) you're smitten. Even if they're on the tame side, they still need to be able to keep up with your quick mind and thirst for variety. Otherwise, you will move on faster than anyone.

Cancer

Because your emotions run so deeply, you tend to prefer charismatic guys who provide you with some degree of emotional stability. And because you're way more likely to want a night at home than a night at the bar, you're the sign most likely to fall in love with a coworker. You see them all the time, you trust them, and you know they'll always be there. Honestly, if you could marry Jim from The Office, you would, but he isn't a real person, so you can't.

Leo

You love intelligent and creative types who inspire you (and others) with their uniqueness, gusto, and determination. You're a born leader and definitely a show-off, so naturally your ideal "hookup bar" is a red carpet. Also, people seriously need to stop judging you for going to those events uninvited.

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Virgo

You tend to go for artistic or emotional types who soak up your supportive and nurturing qualities. This can sometimes backfire if you end up with some jerk who loves how much you do for him and doesn't give a lot in return. If that happens, it's totally OK to leave him and find someone who can shower you with attention and candy and compliments because you deserve it all.

Libra

Energy, confidence, and a pioneering spirit are major turn- ons for you. That said, your energetic spirit can exhaust you, so you really appreciate guys who are brave and persistent enough to pursue you. Mostly because if you have to pursue one more guy who is probably an idiot, you're going to fall asleep in the middle of the street.

Scorpio

You like nurturing, practical, and patient partners who will be by your side for the long haul and dote on you when you need it. You're a very giving sign, but let's face it — you also need a lot from your partner. Once you have someone who knows how to weather your kiiiind of erratic moods from moment to moment, you're in for good.

Sagittarius

You love intelligent and open-minded partners who are willing to be there with you on every adventure you go on. And since you're kind of a human version of spring break, partners who have a lot of stamina and fearlessness will win your heart.

Capricorn

Since you're almost always working, you love sensitive, loyal, and affectionate guys who make you feel nurtured and supported. Your schedule literally has no time for guys who aren't sure if they're into you or not. You're too busy being pleasantly curled up in a pile of soft blankets and cozy socks eating cheese.

Aquarius

Your dreamy, ever-changing nature is drawn to guys who are artistic, courageous, and know exactly who they are (aka Chris Evans makes you lose your mind). There's just something about a guy who has an original point of view and won't compromise it for anyone that makes you feel safe and super excited.

Pisces

You love consistent, helpful, and knowledgable guys who bring structure and support into your dreamy, chaos-filled world. And in return, those guys will get one of the most romantic partners they've ever had. Seriously, every day with you is like living inside The Notebook, but less sad.

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10 (unintentional) sexy things ladies do to turn guys on -(Ksu boy and gal palava)

Women are the sexiest people on the planet and
they are sexy in all kinds of ways.
In fact, every woman is sexy in her own way, every woman defines sexiness in her own way and every woman exhibits sexiness in her own way.

There are quite a few things women do that are unintentionally sexy, though. These make the guys go crazy for us. That's how sexy we are – we're sexy without even trying, without even knowing that we're sexy.

1.) Loving your body

Because men love what they see, it's fascinating to them to see a woman who just loves the way she is and is super confident about her body. As a woman, love your curves, your sharp angles and your soft edges. Also, love your scars, your stretch marks, your best features, and your problem areas. These only make you a confident beautiful woman.

2.) Having a sense of humor

There is nothing sexier than bringing laughter into someone's sad day, week or even life. You might have a ribald sense of humor, a sharp and witty one, or a low-key, dry sense of humor – whatever it is, it's hot… To men, of course!

3.) Showing off your intelligence

Spotlighting your brilliance is super sexy. No need to show-off or behave like you know it all. Being smart and knowing you're right will make someone always think you're being pretentious but who cares!? Never hold back your intelligence. Never be ashamed of how smart you are.

4.) Being optimistic

Being positive with everything doesn't just make someone like being around you but you also get to encourage him/her to see life in another light - positive light! No man wants a woman who always think the worse about everything. Trust me.


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5.) The eyes have it all

 Nothing like the eyes… big, wet, loving and pretty. One look and he comes running.

6.) Flicking your hair

 Some of us (women) do this with no motive behind our actions. Even with short hair some of us still do it and it always stands out because there's just something sexy about it. It may sound shallow but men believe its sexy.

7.) A simple touch to the chest

Just like a smile, sometimes the natural things are just the sexiest. Only guys can really explain how they feel when her hands run through their chests…especially if they're shirtless.

8.) Biting your lower lip

 Even movie directors use this act for the seduction scenes. It works magic on men!

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9.) standing on your toes

This is sexy as h***! Even when a woman is just trying to get something from the upper shelve… almost all the men will think of kissing or running to help her out. It drives them crazy.

10.) Placing your head below his chin

 This is an obviously unintentional act but the way the woman fits in the man's body sends a sweet sensation through his body. The way you fit with your lover is just special and definitely so sexy.

Source : PulseNG

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5 awesome qualities KSU girls appreciate in guys - (Ksu boy and gal palava)

 There's more to being a man than just the tall, dark and handsome attributes most women love to write on their list.

These distinct qualities separates the men from the boys, and it's not just the physical attribute but a mix of both physical and emotional.

1. Sense of humor: A depressed man cannot get the
attention of a woman. Women love men with sense of
humor, they make good company on a sad day.

2. Nice smile, eye bat: Women absolutely adore men
with nice smile and sexy wink. A smile or wink directed at
your woman will make her feel extra special.


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3. Grooming: You don't have to wear the best designer clothes to look good. Grooming yourself is way beyond that. You make a good impression on a women when you know how to take good care of yourself.

4. Calmness: Women are touchy and emotional which is why most of them fall for their opposites - the cool and calm guy. A man who knows the right words to say when his woman is in a hyper mood will surely have her heart.


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5. Being in touch with your emotional side:
Showing affection and care whenever the need arises
would put a smile on a woman's face more than anything
else.


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5 signs he's interested in you -( Ksu boy and gal palava)

   Men are weird when it comes to showing a girl he's true feelings for her. They don’t come out plain to say it in fear of looking unmanly or being
rejected. They just aren’t programmed that way. But they are programmed to display a few signs that should tell you whether or not he is into you.

Beware that while the signs mentioned in this article are backed by various researches, it is possible that these generalizations do not extend to the man in question. Most men are found to display the following signs when they are so attracted by a woman:

1. He has a hard time concentrating

This doesn’t just happen in movies, men really do at times find themselves at a difficulty to concentrate or pay attention when they are with someone they like. They may find themselves to be at a loss of words or may seem to be lost in their own world. But before you get angry at him for being rude, you should know why his brain just can’t concentrate: It’s too occupied thinking of ways to impress you and making sure that the date goes smoothly. And while this may be the exact reason your date might not be going so well, just understand that he can’t help himself and the best way you can bring him back from his daze is by making sure he feels comfortable around you.

2. He teases you

Think back to high school. Boys that tortured and teased you were the ones that ended up crushing on you madly. Since there is a boy inside every man, the same rule can be applied to men. While they may not be putting gum in your hair, they will lightly tease and taunt you. Seems childish? It really isn’t. No man wants a girl that uptight and lacking a sense of humor. This is their way of testing it your “girlfriend potential” out.

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3. He’ll turn macho

When out on a date, does he choose the manlier option? For example, he might order a macho-style dish, for example a steak, rather than going for some delicious pasta. Just like women who might choose to eat salads to look lady-like, men might go for the manlier option when ordering to make themselves seem manlier to you.

4. He’ll walk with you

If a guy likes you, he’ll imitate your speed so as to walk along with you. While this is a very slight change that even he might not be aware of, research showed that men tend to walk at a slower pace when they are walking with someone they are attracted to. This may be because they are enjoying their time with you and there is no other place they rather be.


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5. He starts talking like you

Whether or not he even realizes this, men will start talking, and in some cases, acting like you if they like you. They’ll mirror your words and even your tone at times. Their previous behaviors might get enhanced as they go out with you. Why? Basically it’s something even women at times do and the reason is very plain and simple: We mirror each other to appear more likeable and compatible to each other.

Source : PulseNG

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This Are Ways To Ways To Turn a Conversation Into a Potential Friendship

 We have all been in situations where we meet someone that we feel we would really hit it off with as a friend, but then we end up walking away without having made a closer connection.
 It’s tough to know how to change your interaction from just a casual conversation to a potential friendship, without seeming awkward or needy. These ten tips will help you connect more deeply in the initial minutes of a conversation, and ensure that you’re not left regretting that you didn’t try hard enough to make a new acquaintance into a new friend.

1. Ask open ended questions.

It is difficult to connect with someone if you ask them questions that can be answered in two words. There is no chance for a connection to develop. Instead of asking, “Where do you live?” trying asking “What do you think of your neighborhood?” Instead of “where did you get that shirt?” try “What do you think of the new store in the mall?” The longer you talk, the more chance there is for a connection to grow.

2. Find things in common.

If your potential new friend interned at Credit Suisse, discuss that your brother works in finance. If she is all about reality TV, tell her which shows you’re into. Friendship is built on commonalities.

3. Use emotion words.

Sticking to the facts makes a conversation dry and boring. You want to capture your new acquaintance’s interest by using emotion words so they can connect with you on a genuine level. Instead of going into detail about where you stayed on your trip to London, talk about how anxious you felt when you almost missed your connection. Instead of describing how long your commute is, discuss how much you dread that hour of your day.

4. Think of who this person reminds you of.

If this person reminds you of a friend, someone on TV, or a public figure, tell them, as long as it isn’t insulting, of course. People love to hear who others think they look or act like. It is flattering that someone thinks about you enough to compare you to someone that they know and like.

5. Say positive things.

Don’t complain or whine about your life or discuss how upset you are by friend or work drama. This makes a potential friend wary of getting too close. It can seem like you’re always creating drama and negative energy, which is a turn off.

6. Don’t gossip.

Many people will gossip right back, but then won’t be interested in becoming a closer friend to you. In the back of their mind, they will keep wondering what you’re going to say about them when their back is turned. Try to stay positive and give people the benefit of the doubt when you talk about them, or better, just talk about the two of you without dragging others, who aren’t even there, into the conversation.

7. Don’t self-deprecate.

It can make people feel awkward to be around individuals who talk badly about themselves, complaining about their various terrible qualities. They feel like they have to reassure you, and nobody wants to be someone’s therapist (unless they, like me, are a therapist).

8. Praise mutual friends.

If you know someone in common, talk nicely about them. This will increase the chances that this new acquaintance thinks well of you, and it also makes it likely that the three of you can hang out sometime.

9. Discuss potential future activities.

If your new acquaintance mentions an activity that you also enjoy, invite them to join you in the future. Not in a creepy way where you bring out your phone and start looking at the calendar, but just say that you’d love to have them come along surfing the next time you go to the beach, or whatever the case may be.

10. Don’t be shy about asking to connect.

Plant the seed that you want to be closer friends by saying something like, “I’ll definitely have to friend you on Facebook.” This is also a good way to assess whether this person is also interested in being friends. If they seem excited and later immediately accept your friend request, it’s likely that a friendship may be developing.

If you follow these 10 tips, it is likely you’ll be able to connect much more readily with people who interest you. Now try some of these out, and don’t blame us if you end up with too many plans for the weekend.


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Those Physical Features Guys Can't Resist

 So, according to this research, men are attracted to women with these 6 interesting features below:

1.) Less Makeup

You may think that contouring, layers of eye shadow, and bold lips are making you more beautiful, but as it turns out, the natural look is more appealing to men. The study says that men prefer women who use up to 40% fewer cosmetics. But it shouldn't take science to tell you that the natural you, is the best you.

2.) A High Voice:

According to the study, a high-pitched voice evokes youthfulness and signifies a small, feminine body, both of which are attractive to men.

3.) Healthy Hair:

Shiny, full, and long hair is very attractive to men. Again, it's a sign of health and fertility. Maybe women should also thank their stars for the existence of very sleek wigs. I mean, with regular salon visits and blowouts, you're good to go!

4.) A Wider Waist to Hips Ratio:

Apparently, a ratio of 7:10 is particularly pleasing. The waist and hips are related to childbirth, making men think, those big hips would be great for delivering my baby! This one is pretty obvious– men like small waists and big butts. I guess that would explain why waist-trainers and the Kardashians are trending.

5.) Wearing Red:

In Stevie Wonder's voice "the woman in red…" There's a reason red is associated with lust. Scientists have proven that wearing red enhances attraction. In fact, they've found this phenomenon to hold true in other animals as well.
Note to self: dry clean red dress for Saturday date night. It works magic!

6.) Smiles:

Well obviously, happy people are attractive people and attract other happy people. Plus, science has also proven the whiter the teeth, the better.

This all said, there's plenty of counter research that men are just happy to be getting laid at all. One thing's for sure– they're lucky to have us, just the way we are.


Source : PulseNG

Ksu Boy And Gal Palava : Dumb Questions PAAU Gals Ask Guys And Their Funny Answers

Well,am a KSU...oh,sorry,its now "PAAU". So,basically am a PAAU undergraduate and whenever our gals ask this dumb questions,this funny answers come to my mind,enjoy :
 Are you a player?
Ans: Yes, CHELSEA FC wants to sign me next season.
Why do you wan’t my Pin?
Ans: I want to use it to burst balloons.
Can you die for me?
Ans: My name is surely not Romeo
My BIS will soon expire, what am I going to
do?
Ans: Return the BB phone to the seller and get a Nokia
3310.
If I sleep over in your house, hope nothing
funny will happen?
Ans: No, trust me, we would just perform a vigil.
Hope you won’t break my Heart?
Ans: If you don’t put it at the edge of the table.
Can you take me out?
Ans: Sorry, are you in prison?
Can you come and pick me up?
Ans: Are you a beans seed?
I think I’ve missed my period
Ans: Then ask the class captain for the next class!
Can’t you get a Car?
Ans: Did your father own a car when he was in college?
Why do you want my number ??
Ans : I am an agent for Sim Registration



Babes,stop asking us "boosit",abeg





J.L.O BABA

SUG PRESIDENT REVEALS PLANS FOR STUDENT CENTRE

The SUG President Philip Shaibu Omepa on friday evening revealed plans to create a "STUDENT CENTRE" for KSU students by the union.
He posted this on his FACEBOOK TIMELINE :
 "The proposed student center by the SUG 2015/2016 .... The Student Center shall serve as the official, legal and recognized student ground of Kogi State University. It shall serve academic purposes as well as social and recreational purposes.
The student center shall provide:
Free meeting hall for students Affordable computer services ranging from internet services, printing and photocopying, lamination.
Low price eatery/ cafeteria Affordable gym center Affordable laundry services for students Free indoor sport facilities(badminton, table tennis, snooker, chess etc) Football viewing facilities and cinema.
 It is quite obvious that the SUG does not have enough money that will bring this project to completion. We therefore, seek the support of government, private bodies and organisations, as well as notable individuals for the actualization of this great project. We thus anticipate a positive response to this proposal."

Kogi State Governor 'Yahaya Bello' Renames State University After Late Abubakar Audu

 Governor Yahaya Bello of Kogi on Friday renamed the Kogi State University, Ayangba, after the late first civilian governor of the state, Abubakar Audu. Bello announced the change in the name of the 15- year-old university during a statewide broadcast to mark his victory at the state governorship election petition tribunal. He said that naming the university was the ultimate honor that could be done to the memory of the late colorful politician who ruled the state twice as the civilian governor from 1991 to 1993 and 1999 to 2003. Audu himself established the university in 2001 and named it Prince Abubakar Audu University but his successor, Alhaji Ibrahim Idris changed the name to Kogi State University in 2004. Justifying his decision to restore the university to its original name, Bello said that Audu laid a solid foundation for the growth and development of the state

 “Today, and as always, I celebrate the life and times of Prince Abubakar Audu, the first Executive Governor of Kogi State. It is our hope that those who want to lay claim to his legacy will at least develop the same heart for the growth and development of Kogi State that he demonstrated through his lifetime,” he said. According to the governor, an executive bill will soon be forwarded to the house of assembly to formalise the change in the name of the university. Audu, who was the candidate of the All Progressives Congress (APC) in the November 21st 2015 governorship election in the state, died suddenly on November 22nd before the result of the election was announced. The leadership of the APC consequently substituted the name of Audu with that of Yahaya Bello as the candidate in the supplementary governorship election held on December 5th 2015.

The governor also used the broadcast to thank the people of the state for their support and understanding since his assumption of office in January . He said that since the five petitions filed against him had been thrown out for lack of merit, the state was now set to witness a new direction and accelerated development. According to Bello, a blueprint of the administration which will kick start creation of one million jobs for the unemployed youths will be unveiled by next week. He called on all those who lost at the tribunal, irrespective of their political affiliation, to join hands with him to develop the state, saying “there was no victor, no vanquish”.