16 Questions Every 20-Something Should AskThemselves From Time To Time

As a 20-something you are faced with many challenges
and struggles. Whether those challenges are focusing
on your career path, your relationships, your body
image, or even your life’s purpose; no one can give you
the answers to the questions you should be asking
yourself. Asking yourself questions when faced with
life’s complications can inspire you to re-think, re-
analyze and re-configure the way you have been living
life.

1. Am I Living Up To My Full Potential?
As a 20-something it’s easy to reach certain milestones
in life, and slowly begin to plateau. The personal
growth incurred by challenging your capabilities, can
help you reach the best version of yourself that you
have ever experienced.
2. Do I Compare
Myself To Others Too
Often?
It’s easy to get caught up
in what your peers are
accomplishing while living
in their twenties.
Comparing yourself to
someone that isn’t you,
may only bring
discouragement. You may
feel as if you are falling
behind, when in fact you
are the leader of your own
life journey.
3. Do I Live In The Present?
As a 20-something you begin to explore who you really
are. In order to define your present, you need to keep
the past behind you and the future in the horizon. Try
living in the moments before they pass. Your past is
the foundation to the present, and the present will
shape the future.
4. What Are My Life Goals?
Building life goals strengthens the purpose to life.
While living in the present is essential to happiness,
having a bucket list can give you something to look
forward. Achieving goals does not happen over night,
so taking small steps that can be applied to your
everyday life, can help build towards your future
accomplishments.
5. What Triggers My Stress?
It’s important to understand your stress triggers, so
you can recognize them when they are present in your
life. Once you can recognize your triggers, managing
how you react to stress becomes a lot easier, and you
can deal with stress on a mature and manageable
level.
6. Do I Recognize My Weaknesses?
It can be easy at times to point out the faults and
weakness of others, but have you ever analyzed your
own weaknesses? Recognizing your weaknesses may
open many doors for self-improvement and personal
growth.
7. Do I Recognize My Growth Throughout The
Years?
Life sure feels like a scramble as a 20-something, but
stopping to absorb all of the incredible things that you
have accomplished so far can really encourage and
motivate you to aim higher with everything else that
you do.
8. Do My Friends Reflect Who I Really Am?
As a 20-something you might hang on to friends from
high school, from college, from university, from past
work facilities, and so on. Not to say you should say
good-bye to all past friendships and only focus on the
new, but you should make sure that you are
surrounding yourself with people who also reflect who
you are and who you want to be.
9. Do I Make My Decisions Based On The
Needs Of Others?
Whether it’s the need for acceptance or recognition,
sometimes it’s easy to get caught up in what others
want from you, for you. Making decisions based on
the needs of others is a short-term fix to keep the
people around you content so you can bypass endless
questions. However, it’s you who ultimately has to live
with your decisions.
10. Am I Spending Money On The Wrong
Things?
Saving money can feel impossible once all monthly
living expenses are covered. Making a practical budget
and breaking down what you actually need and use
can really help you see what you have been disposing
your money on. Try looking at your wants verses your
needs. You may want 2GB of data for your fancy new
smart phone, but why not cut the cost of your data
plan if you’re actually only using 500MB each month?
Do this practice for your cable bill, your grocery list, or
even your personal products.
11. Am I Ready To Begin Investing In My
Future?
Knowing the lifestyle you want to live can determine
how you should invest in your future. A part of
investing in your future is deciding a career path. The
rest of it is buying property and planning for
retirement, which in your twenties may seem obscure.
12. Do I Feel Like An Equal Contributor In My
Workplace?
As a 20-something it’s easy to get looked at as the
“rookie” in any job position. If you are putting in hard,
honest work ethic and not receiving credit for the
work you are doing, it can feel daunting. If you find
yourself in a workplace where you are not seen as an
equal maybe it’s time to find your voice and speak up.
13. What Do I Need From A Romantic
Relationship?
You might have experienced a romantic relationship at
some point during your twenties, and it may not have
worked out, that’s okay. With each relationship had,
you are constantly learning about yourself, as well as
others, and what you need out of a life partner. Try
taking all of your past relationships and picking out the
qualities that you appreciated most, and all of the
qualities that held no room for compromise. This will
show you the characteristics that are most attractive
and important to you.
14. Am I Too Dependent On My Parents?
Sometimes being a 20-something is doing things on
your own without parental guidance. As a child,
parents were usually there to help you as best as they
could in all aspects. As an adult, your parents may be
there to mentally support you, but they are no longer
held responsible to pay your bills, drive you around, or
book your appointments.
15. Do I Love Myself?
Self-love can be hard to wrap your head around when
you’re a 20-something, but when you find it, you have
a whole new appreciation for yourself. Self-love is
about being understanding towards your own needs,
as well as having the courage to stand up for yourself
even when you’re standing alone. Self-love is knowing
how to forgive yourself, and having the ability to live
life worry-free from the thoughts others may have of
you.
16. Am I Happy?
A question that trumps all; knowing your weaknesses,
knowing your strengths, and ultimately understanding
yourself as best as possible, will help you find your
happiness.

Top 9 Tips for Maintaining a Positive Attitude

Having and maintaining a positive attitude is vital for
success in life and business. Zig Ziglar gets it right
when he says, “It is your attitude, not your aptitude,
that determines your altitude.” Sure you need skills,
but you can learn skills – in fact a positive attitude will
make it much more likely that you will learn the skills
necessary to succeed. If you take two people with an
equal skill set the person with the better attitude will
win.
Unfortunately it is not always easy to stay positive and
keep a good attitude.
As things go wrong
throughout your day, it is
easy to let negative
thoughts start to take
over. Thankfully there are
many things that you can
do to help maintain a
positive attitude. These are
things that you can do on a
daily, weekly, or monthly
basis to make sure you
keep your positive focus.

1. Read Positive and
Inspiring Books
One of the best ways to maintain a positive
attitude is by reading positive books. These
books serve to encourage you, inspire you,
and teach you. Reading requires that you sit
still and focus, and by focusing on something
positive it helps you to keep a positive mindset
throughout the day.
2. Listen to Podcasts/CDS
The advantage of listening to podcasts or
compact disks is that you can listen on the go.
You can listen to motivating podcasts while
you clean your house, exercise, or on a flight.
In your car, you can play encouraging compact
disks that help you make better use of your
commute. Listening to recordings from people
like Zig Ziglar, Tony Robbins, or John Maxwell
can both teach and inspire you.
3. Wake up Early
One of the best ways to help you maintain a
positive attitude is to create the habit of
waking up early. Waking up early allows you to
get a head start on the day. You can prepare
for work and start your day without feeling
rushed. You can get a head start on important
projects before the rest of the world is awake
to interrupt you. You can spend time reading
or in prayer or meditation. I start each day by
listening to a 10 minute motivational podcast.
4. Exercise
Very few things in life leverage your time as
much as exercise. Obviously it makes a
difference for your physical health, but it also
has significant benefits to your mental health.
Exercise is useful to combat depression and to
improve overall positive mood. Further, if you
exercise early in the morning you can go
through your day knowing that you have
already completed the most valuable activity
you had to do!
5. Plan Your Week and Day
Having a clear plan to your day and to your
week can go a long way to helping you
maintain a positive attitude. By knowing what
you want to accomplish you will be able to
focus on your important life priorities. A
weekly plan allows you to match your long-
term goals to your weekly accomplishments.
Your daily plan allows you complete the
activities you need to do so that you meet your
weekly goals.
6. Understand that Things Won’t Always Go as
Planned
If you plan and expect everything in life will go
as you planned, you will be quickly
disappointed. One of the keys to maintaining a
positive attitude is to understand that things
will go wrong. If you expect things to go
wrong, you won’t be phased when they do. So
have a plan, but understand that things won’t
follow the plan. The plan allows you to adapt
to what went wrong and move back towards
what is important.
7. Get Spiritually Connected
Naturally this one will look different for
everyone, and this is simply an option to
consider. If you are spiritually connected, you
will have a positive outlook on life. This might
mean prayer, meditation or reading Scripture.
Set aside time each day to be connected
spiritually.
8. Be Thankful
Take some time and be thankful. Be thankful
about what you have, who you are, and what
your life is like. Think through all of the things
that you can be thankful for. Even if you are in
a tough time in life there are many things you
have that you can be thankful for. You need to
look for them and recognize them. The very
act of focusing on what you are thankful for
will help you maintain your positive attitude.
9. Surround Yourself with Positive People
The people around you have a big impact on
you. They impact who you are, how much
money you will make, and what you value.
They also impact how you think. If you
surround yourself with negative people you
will be negative as well. You can’t help it.
Hearing negativity all day leads you to
negativity. The opposite is also true. Surround
yourself with positive people and you will be
more positive.

The Day of the Exam: 15 Tips to Boost your ExamPerformance

However hard you studied in the run up to exams, the
most important work is yet to be done. Regardless of
how much you have studied, it is possible that your
exam performance may not reflect your hard
work studying for hours on end. That is why we
want to give you a few tips to maximise your
performance on the day of the exam.

Exam Tip #1
Wake up early so that you do not need to rush through
having breakfast and getting ready.
Exam Tip #2
Check the venue and time
of the exam to make sure
that you have not
confused the day/time/
venue.
Exam Tip #3
Have a balanced breakfast
and eat nothing risky
(probably not the best day
to have a super-hot
curry!). Bananas are
always a good option.
Exam Tip #4
Before leaving home, check that you have everything
that you will need – ID, stationery, map to the exam
venue, etc.
Exam Tip #5
Head to the exam with plenty of time. A lot of
unexpected events can happen on your way there and
you do not want to be late!
Exam Tip #6
If there are people around who are panicking, avoid
them. They are not doing you any favour!
Exam Tip #7
Go to the toilet before the exam starts. Exams can be
quite long and there is no time to waste.
Exam Tip #8
Remember to write your name on the exam paper.
You would not believe how many people have
forgotten to do it!
Exam Tip #9
Read all the questions carefully before starting and
quickly plan how much time to allocate to each.
Exam Tip #10
Start answering the questions that you feel most
confident about. There is no need to answer the
questions in order.
Exam Tip #11
If your brain freezes, just start writing anything and
you will soon start remembering more details.
Exam Tip #12
Don’t spend more time than you planned on a
particular section/question or you might run out of
time to answer other questions and gain those extra
marks! Also, leave any questions that you are unsure
about for the end.
Exam Tip #13
Don’t be afraid to ask the examiner if you are not clear
on a question.
Exam Tip #14
Use every minute of the exam and if you have time
left, review your answers before handing back the
paper.
Exam Tip #15
Stay calm, you have done your homework and have
nothing to fear!

Reasons Why Some Students Study Very HardBut Still Fail Exams

Ever wonder why some students read very
hard every semester but surprisingly fail
their exams at the end of it all?
Such students read almost every day and
night and are perceived by their mates as
hardworking students who deserve to
succeed academically; however, their poor
grades keep surprising them and everyone
else.
If you study hard
and your grades
seem not to reflect
your hard work,
then its time you
stop working hard
and start working
smart.
Here are some
reasons why some
students study hard
but fail.
1. Upholding
hard work while neglecting smart
work
Hard work is good but hard work when
done smartly is far better and produces
greater result.
Hard work starts with reading and ends with
more reading.
Students who uphold hard work while
neglecting smart work believe they must
read every note, text-book, handout and all
materials they can get to be able to pass.
On the other hand, smart work involves
reading and settling back to self-examine
whether what is being read is really
required for passing exams.
Students who seem to read less but still
perform excellently well have been able to
combine smart work and hard work. They
are able to smartly figure out what they
need to read to pass. They know they don’t
have to read all the textbooks in the library
to be able perform well.
2. Not knowing when it’s enough
Studying saps energy. When you become
tired while reading it is important you take a
break, take a walk or go watch TV before
returning to your books.
Most students read hard and fail because
they stay glued to their books even when
they’re exhausted and need rest. In such
condition everything they’ll be reading stops
making sense but they continue
nonetheless.
3. Having difficulty prioritizing
what’s important
Not all courses or subjects are read the
same. Seemingly difficult subjects or
courses should be given higher priority.
Also, courses that are prerequisites are
more important than electives and thus
must be given more priority as we study.
4. Focusing on “I don’t want to fail”
instead of “I want to pass”
This is a mind game. Winners always focus
their minds on winning.
From personal experience, I see that most
students who read more than others but
still fail do their read out of fear. They afraid
of failing hence they often say things like: “I
don’t want to fail”. Fear is their motivation.
The solution to is to focus our minds on “I
want to pass” so I’ll read.
5. Putting their books first and
themselves second
They read all day and night while they forget
about the need to take care of themselves.
Haven’t you seen those who read from the
first day of resumption to the last week of
lectures only to fall sick in the week of
exams? They stress and wear themselves
out.
6. They read all the time instead of
at ‘their right time’
There is often the ‘right time’ to read for
every student. This is often the time of the
day when you are able to grasp and
understand more as you read. For some
their right time to read is at night.
Students who read hard and still fail read at
all times even when it’s not necessary.
At the end of the day, they are perceived to
be serious and hardworking students but
they have no results to show for their
labour.
If this issue affects you I hope this write-up
helps you to understand how you ought to
adjust.

#THELIST: Top ten awesome places in and around Kogi State University

Kogi state university is filled with a lot of standout places in and around the institution,places that fill your belly with joy. So on #thelist this wonderful realers saturday we list 10 standout or awesome places in and around Kogi state university,if you haven't been to this places you need to check them out.

10. MACOSA Radio and T.V Studio : The KSU masscommunication studio(radio and t.v) reeks of awesomeness in its tiny bits. If you haven't been there as a ksu student then you are seriously dulling. Its not the aso rock or harvard university type of awesome,but its a standout place. The accostic wall design of the t.v room is preety at best,and the interior of the radio studio(especially in the year they built it) is just amazing(if you're entering for the first time),even though most of their equipments needs replacement.
9. Art and humanities falculty : Most students would have,at least once passed through art and humanities before,its always looking kinda rough and all day by day,the rusty gate,that ugly man o'war office,the primary school which I think is a bad idea and so on. But if you take your time to observe the faculty itself you'll discover how awesome the faculty is. The TETFUND lecture rooms with the cozy seats,the nice classrooms that looks maintained,and their magical garden in the middle,that garden is really cool,with the trees an all,and the cool air,really awesome. And by the way,let's not forget the old L.T under renovation,I think its going to make the faculty even more special. And always keep a date with all those theatre arts production night,its goosebummy
8. The school library : The school library is one of those places in ksu that you enter and feel 21st century. Its modern,its neat,its awe inspiring. The interior design especially is spot on. The problem in KSU is MAINTENANCE. If that library was under proper maintenance am sure it will look better than that. Anyways,the place is conducive enough for reading,and its an awesome place for readers.
7. VOGUES : Do I need to say much about VOGUES. Its not "CLUB ROYAL",but its awesome as it is. Just check it out on a friday night and see how awesome it looks with students around.
6. DUSAK VEIWING CENTRE : For a viewing centre of kogi state standards,this is sheer brilliance !!! The exterior doesn't really have much going,and the interior is simple,the italian way,flat screens on the wall,wide viewing area for viewers,but what makes this place awesome is the match days and the people,especially on a champions league night. The atmosphere,the frenzy,its like the gathering of passionate football fans. The atmosphere is always electric. The arsenal manchester united game last semester was magnifico. If you haven't been there on a matchday,you are on a looooong thing.
5. Medical hostel : The medical hostel isn't top class,but its a breath of fresh air compared to other places in ksu. The quiet environment,the design of the hostel just makes it awesome.
4. HABOUR BAY : Describing HABOUR BAY for most ksu students is like describing what "opa" looks like. HABOUR BAY is awesome,and if you haven't been there then make sure you check it out ASAP.
3. Management garden : This personally is my favourite place in ksu. The management garden is a cool (and romantic) place to be. Its easy to think and relax over there,even though church people have taken over.
2. The GRUVE : Oh my GRUVE !!! The girls love that place. You wanna win a girl over,especially all those inikpi girls just carry dem comot go gruve,buy mede mede for dem,dem go gree sharp sharp. Seriously now,the GRUVE is an awesome place to be,the interior design,with the lights and all,the chairs,dem try small,they gat something going for them over there.
1. Agriculture faculty : Agric faculty is beautiful. The garden is beautiful. The labs are beautiful. The classrooms are beautiful. The enviroment is beautiful. Forgive me,I just love that place,words alone cannot describe how much I love that place. Its the coolest place in ksu by far !!! The lecture theatre is modern,the classrooms are modern,the labs are modern,the enviroment is conducive and amazing. And they are not done yet with the faculty. Big ups to ksu for blessing ksu students with that place. Its just naturally different from other faculties.

WHAT?! No Graduate of this Course isUnemployed in Nigeria (SEE THE COURSE)

Thousands that graduate in Nigeria ar
Unemployed. But not Radiography
graduates. Radiography is the use of ionizing
electromagnetic radiation such as X-rays to view
objects. Although not technically radiographic
techniques, imaging modalities such as PET and MRI
are sometimes grouped in radiography because the
radiology department of hospitals handle all forms of
imaging. Treatment using radiation is known as
radiotherapy.
Radiography started in 1895 with the discovery of X-
rays (later also called Röntgen rays after the man who
first described their properties in rigorous detail), a
type of electromagnetic radiation. Soon these found
various applications, from helping to find shoes that
fit, to the more lasting medical uses. X-rays were put
to diagnostic use very early, before the dangers of
ionising radiation were discovered. Initially, many
groups of staff conducted radiography in hospitals,
including physicists, photographers, doctors, nurses,
and engineers. The medical speciality of radiology
grew up around the new technology, and this lasted
many years. When new diagnostic tests involving X-
rays were developed, it was natural for the
radiographers to be trained and adopt this new
technology. This happened first with
fluoroscopy,computed tomography (1960s), and
mammography. Ultrasound (1970s) and magnetic
resonance imaging (1980s) was added to the list of
skills used by radiographers because they are also
medical imaging, but these disciplines do not use
ionising radiation or X-rays.
No Nigerian radiographer
is jobless. They are in
perpetual demand by
several private hospitals
who can only engage their
services on a part time
basis since they often can
not pay them full time.
That’s why many of the
experienced and qualified
radiographers have gone
overseas. In fact its
possible that over 60% of
radiographers trained
between 1989-2009 are
likely not living in Nigeria.
The rest are in bigger blue chip companies. While few
are found TEMPORARILY working at General Hospitals
across the country. Those on PP (private practice, a
term used by radiographers, sometimes in sarcasm) in
private hospitals are newer, younger and student
radiographers.
My advice to youths (and older middle aged men, even
of up to 50 years) is to consider going back to study
radiography if the right opportunity exists.

Ksu boy and gal palava: Signs Your Girlfriend Is StillA Teenager

First and foremost, there are many 20+ girls who are
still teens “mentally”- take your eyes off those balloons
one minute- She is still a teen! Don’t you get it?
She might lie about her age but…
Teens are officially humans from age 13-19. That
phase seemed to have come at them unexpected and
unprepared. That is observed the way they speak,
comment, react and relate.
The stage kinda offers
them the luxury of making
choices, especially selfish
ones.
I recently heard that the
rate of selfishness among
ladies and guys is like 5:3. I
heard.
Therefore, most teenage
guys quickly get past that
selfishness perimeter, but
ladies? Hmm!

1. How she relates
with you is totally
dependent on what her besties tell her.
This some times makes her indecisive and passive in
her actions towards you. Today she tells you one
thing, tomorrow, another. You can almost see a third
party with a kid’s gloves on.
2. She can’t make any relationship work
She may profess how ready she is to make it work, but
inside her is like a remote control, she just can’t fit! At
any slight disagreement in a “marriage-professed”
relationship, she quickly walks away- returns to
hibernate in “solo zone”!
3. A girl of excess fantasy with zero reality
I feel concerned when I see a “grown up” girl that
should be seeing the part of Miley Cyrus, Taylor Swift
or Selena Gomez that has a dream and won’t quit
working until it achieves it. Instead, she decides to see
the fancy and flexing part that wants to live in a
mansion of gold with zero grey matter. I see!
4. Mexican Love movies often becloud her
reasoning.
As earlier stated, she can be 30+, but if she thinks that
the love story in those movies are real enough to
inculcate it in her relationship, then; she is simply
running on the Engine of a Teenager. The movies sef
are even acted by teens! Hian!
5. At the early stage of your relationship, she
frequently play simple and “naive” games to
test your love for her.
Y’all know what y’all did… At least, before you ate
the forbidden apple…
6. She dresses, makes up, walks, talks,
speaks and acts like a “wannabee adult”
You can tell from her looks if you’ve got “the eye”. I do
not dispute the fact that there are many teens who
negate this point. They are quite good, 75% good
7. Highly Temperamental Displayed through
Mood Swings At Important Moments
The funny thing is, she doesn’t know why! You may call
it snubbing you, ignoring your calls… All of these and
more buttress my point.
There are just some things only age and maturity can
bring.
Relationship is quite an adventure with her kind of
partner in a boat.
I must add this, these young, inexperienced folks
always think they’re in love, especially with a much
older guy. She is not for you guys to explore and
deflower. If you snub my advice, what about Karma?
Why not let her go elsewhere or if you have the
strength, you coach her aright?

30 Signs You’re Going To Be Highly Successful (A MUSTREAD)

We all wanted to be the successful people we see in
magazines, in newspapers, and on the internet. What
qualities do these successful people possess that
bring them to their success? All successful people have
a set of characteristics and threads that enable them
to succeed.
Here are 30 signs that
show you are going to be
highly successful:

1. You can adapt to
change.
There will be times when
you know you have to
change, in order to move
forward when things are
not working as well as they
use to. You are not
affected negatively by any
changes that come your
way, instead you adapt to
the change and are flexible about it.
2. You are not one to complain.
You recognize that complaining is energy draining and
it does not bring you to accomplishing any productive
solutions in your situation. You choose to focus on
resolving the problem instead.
3. You spend your time productively.
You manage your time properly and you are always on
time in your meetings and appointments. You
plan your time productively so that you can utilize it
effectively to accomplish your goals.
4. You are self motivated.
You constantly take action and take initiatives without
having to be pushed by others.
5. You never hesitate to do more.
You are willing to do more than the job you have
been given. You know that doing more is an
opportunity for you to practice more, and also a way
to build your reputation.
6. You are willing to help others.
You understand that everybody needed help at some
point. As long as you are able, you are willing to lend a
helping hand to others.
7. You forgive.
You do not hold grudges or resent the people who
have hurt you in the past. You take the experience as a
lesson to be learned and thank them for making you a
stronger person.
8. You are happy with the success of others.
You are happy to celebrate their accomplishments. It
is a motivator for you.
9. You take every obstacle as a learning opportunity.
You grab the opportunity to learn whenever you face a
challenge, because you know that you will gain
something from it.
10. You love being around successful people.
You like hanging with successful people — they inspire
you and you can gain insight from them.
11. You love unconditionally.
You love to give and you love with no boundary. You
know that loving unconditionally is the key to true
happiness. You are the happiest when the people you
love are happy.
12. You take on responsibilities and never blame.
You recognize that blaming means you are not in
control of your situation, so you choose to take
control by being responsible for your situation
instead.
13. You love learning new things.
Learning is always one of your top priorities. You know
that continually gaining knowledge and information is
crucial in order to be up to date in today’s society, so
you will never be clueless about what is going on
around you.
14. You are curious about other people.
You like to get to know others, as you know that you
can always learn from their experiences and gain
knowledge from them.
15. You always aim to do better.
You always look towards becoming better at what you
do, so you are excited to improve yourself at any given
chance.
16. You are willing to let go.
You know that dwelling in the past is unproductive so
you let go of what you can’t change, and change what
you are able.
17. You are fearless.
You understand that fear is a choice, and you refuse to
let fear drag you down. Instead, you choose to be
strong and overcome your fear with strength and
positivity.
18. You question what you don’t know.
You ask when you are not certain about something.
You don’t just leave the question unsolved and slips
away, instead you will ask someone who has the
information or you will look up
the information yourself.
19. You see things in a few different perspectives.
You come out with a few different perspectives to
resolve your issue. You are not stuck with one
perspective, because you know that in order to resolve
your issue, you need to see things in a few different
directions so that you can have a clearer view of where
you are standing and where you can go.
20. You work well with others.
You love working with others, and are cooperative.
You know the importance of support when
accomplishing bigger goals.
21. You are passionate about your pursuits.
You love what you do, and you enjoy every moment
you spend working on your pursuit.
22. You understand your strengths and weaknesses.
You recognize what you are good at and polish your
strengths. You acknowledge your weaknesses and
work to improve them.
23. You acknowledge your mistakes.
You are willing to admit to your fault, and you work
harder to be better the next time.
24. You understand the pain of others.
You are compassionate to their suffering. You are able
to see their point of view and understand where they
are coming from.
25. You are content.
You are grateful for what you have, and thankful to the
people who have helped you along the way.
26. You never give up.
Giving up is not an option for you. You know that as
long as you keep fighting, you will get to where you
want to be someday.
27. You believe in yourself.
You understand that there will always be ups and
downs in life, but you strongly believe that your vision
and goals will be achieved eventually.
28. You don’t care what others think of you.
You understand that no matter what you do, there will
always be negative people around, and you are not
going to be affected by their judgements as long as
you know what you are doing is right for you.
29. You take criticism positively.
Criticism is for you, a great resource to improve
yourself. You don’t take it personally, and instead, you
use it as a guideline to better yourself.
30. You love the person you see in your mirror.
You love yourself. You know the importance of self-
love, that in order to be loved by others, you have
to love yourself first.
You might not see yourself having all 30 signs at this
moment, but don’t worry. You definitely already have
some of the qualities right now, and as long as you are
constantly working to improve yourself, you will
eventually get to the rest of the list. Keep moving
positively and you will get better as you go.

WOW!! Prophet’s Prophecy Fails As YoungNigeria Becomes PhD Holder (READ FULL STORY)

As said by the young man in question, this is a unique
motivational story, which all can learn from. Read and
share:

When I was 8 years old, a Prophet came to my house
and after prayers took a look at me and said I will
never do well academically and when its time my
parents should send me to learn trade. I wept that
night because I knew the Vision I saw of myself. My
sister Chinyere came to me and said Nna you can be
whatever you want to be; I believed her. TODAY I am a
graduate of Architecture with Masters and Doctorate
(PhD) degree in the same field, which I graduated in
both with First Class High Honours. Today am one of
the youngest PhD holders in Architectural
Construction Technology from Nigeria, maybe the
youngest and the only one as I was told. Friends
believe in yourself and know you can turn around any
negative Prophesy over your life by keying into your
Vision. I did it by God’s Grace and I know you
can.#MyBirthDayTestimony.

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