First and foremost, there are many 20+ girls who are
still teens “mentally”- take your eyes off those balloons
one minute- She is still a teen! Don’t you get it?
She might lie about her age but…
Teens are officially humans from age 13-19. That
phase seemed to have come at them unexpected and
unprepared. That is observed the way they speak,
comment, react and relate.
The stage kinda offers
them the luxury of making
choices, especially selfish
ones.
I recently heard that the
rate of selfishness among
ladies and guys is like 5:3. I
heard.
Therefore, most teenage
guys quickly get past that
selfishness perimeter, but
ladies? Hmm!
1. How she relates
with you is totally
dependent on what her besties tell her.
This some times makes her indecisive and passive in
her actions towards you. Today she tells you one
thing, tomorrow, another. You can almost see a third
party with a kid’s gloves on.
2. She can’t make any relationship work
She may profess how ready she is to make it work, but
inside her is like a remote control, she just can’t fit! At
any slight disagreement in a “marriage-professed”
relationship, she quickly walks away- returns to
hibernate in “solo zone”!
3. A girl of excess fantasy with zero reality
I feel concerned when I see a “grown up” girl that
should be seeing the part of Miley Cyrus, Taylor Swift
or Selena Gomez that has a dream and won’t quit
working until it achieves it. Instead, she decides to see
the fancy and flexing part that wants to live in a
mansion of gold with zero grey matter. I see!
4. Mexican Love movies often becloud her
reasoning.
As earlier stated, she can be 30+, but if she thinks that
the love story in those movies are real enough to
inculcate it in her relationship, then; she is simply
running on the Engine of a Teenager. The movies sef
are even acted by teens! Hian!
5. At the early stage of your relationship, she
frequently play simple and “naive” games to
test your love for her.
Y’all know what y’all did… At least, before you ate
the forbidden apple…
6. She dresses, makes up, walks, talks,
speaks and acts like a “wannabee adult”
You can tell from her looks if you’ve got “the eye”. I do
not dispute the fact that there are many teens who
negate this point. They are quite good, 75% good
7. Highly Temperamental Displayed through
Mood Swings At Important Moments
The funny thing is, she doesn’t know why! You may call
it snubbing you, ignoring your calls… All of these and
more buttress my point.
There are just some things only age and maturity can
bring.
Relationship is quite an adventure with her kind of
partner in a boat.
I must add this, these young, inexperienced folks
always think they’re in love, especially with a much
older guy. She is not for you guys to explore and
deflower. If you snub my advice, what about Karma?
Why not let her go elsewhere or if you have the
strength, you coach her aright?
