Wednesday, June 15, 2016

Sex and Relatoinship : 6 Ways To Know You Are In A Relationship With A Liar/Cheater

1. Liars and cheaters do not trust
A liar or a cheater is always apprehensive and is always
trying to find something that will help them not trust the
person. As they know what people are capable of.
Trust will always be the point of dispute for a very long time
if you are in a relationship with them.

 2. The will always act to be the victim
Liars and cheaters have a bad habit of self pity. They always
treat their pain to be the greater pain. Even if you fall off a
tree and break the bones in your body, their pain of a mere
knife cut will be more. Since such people are constantly
trying to justify the fact that they lie, they are always finding
reasons to help them advocate the case.
Such people will always have bigger problem from you. At
times when you are explaining a tragedy to such people
they will gradually move the focal point of the relationship
towards themselves.
3. Liars and cheaters are always apprehensive
Such people have so much to fight for. They have so much
to hide that they are always apprehensive even when they
go out for groceries.
Simple plans will never be simple for the two of you. It
could be anything, it could be a simple walk out in the park
but it won’t be simple in any way.
Either you didn’t ask them before choosing a park or you
didn’t ask them hard enough so maybe you don’t want them
to go which brings me to another point.
4. They will Pick the most stupid fights
This is a huge tell sign. It could be a tell sign for a lot of
things though, like attention seekers would also do this.
Liars and cheaters are always on the lookout for the
reasons to fight, subconsciously. As they know, one day
every lie of theirs will come out in the open.
They subconsciously gather information that will help them
portray themselves as the victim and all their actions
justified after that is being done to them.
5. Liars and cheaters are charmers
Liars and cheaters are charmers and win over people easily.
They will always be the life of the group. They make you feel
special which they know matters to you the most because
they have no limits when it comes to lying.
They would tell you the most amazing and hopeful things
about what you want to hear.
6. Liars and cheaters have loopholes in their
stories
Since liars and cheaters are used to lying, they don’t mind
adding a few lies here and there. This when you ask them
about the same story, they will never tell the story the same
because liars themselves don’t know which lie they said to
someone. Such loopholes, if exposed or questioned, will
always be welcome with an I-knew-you-don’t-trust-me fight.
This only ends in you being the guilty one. So, be prepared.