Normally, very few people would like to be in a
relationship with a grouchy individual. Who wants to deal with the
incessant moodiness and dour posture?
Most people would rather be with people who know how to have a good time –the baddest, coolest gang.
Regardless
of how much spice fun-loving partners bring to relationships and life
in general, sometimes they are not as awesome as they are cracked up to
be.
These are five reasons why it isn’t always great to date the baddest partner in town:
· If
you are the kind of person who has a lot of drama going on in your
life, what you really need is someone who helps keep the drama at level
that is safe for both you and the people you interact with on a daily
basis. As such, you need a partner who knows how to look at issues with
some level of seriousness, at least 70% of the time. Fun-seekers may not
be able to help sort out your life when you really need them to.
· You
could end up being the one making all the sound financial decisions in
the relationship. What your partner may be interested in is going on one
adventure after the other, which could grate on your nerves quite
strongly.
· At the beginning of the
relationship, your partner’s lifestyle will be enthralling because a
whole new world seems to have been opened up to you. With time however,
you may not be able to keep up with their escapades and they may see
that as a sign of your lack of interest in them, which may not be the
case.
· Fun-loving people can turn out to be
loose talkers. Who knows how many of your intimate secrets will roll off
your partner’s tongue when they have had a drink or two? And you
probably cannot tell them how their actions hurt you, they might just
dismiss it and say ‘it was only a joke, luv’
· There
is a bigger room for jealousy, that green-eyed monster, to rear its
head. Your partner will have too many friends they hang out with late
into the night; you may not have what it takes, emotionally, to dismiss
every one of those friends as ‘just a mere friend’.