Relationship on campus ; the do's and dont's

                   

Relationships have become something that people have misunderstood. Relationship is actually a divine orchestration which we cannot do without and I believe that with a proper understanding of it, people would grow to treasure relationships.

Relationship is an institution set up to create interaction between people so as to ensure continuity of life, balance of nature and inner satisfaction for everybody. Relationship brings men of like minds together to build a great thing, it inspires love in people for friendship. Relationship keeps the world moving and the earth spinning.

Even though there are different kinds of relationship, sexual relationship seems to be the most important for the continuity of life. The race of men will cease to exist if it vanishes, and the world will be a wasteland. Sexual relationship exist also to satisfy the urge and sexual desire of every man.
From a Nigeria-based statistics, it has been discovered that, the most enduring sexual relationships that exists are actually those that started while at school such as tertiary institutions, because at the time, folks are still young, tender and sincere, and these relationships make it through to marriage. The same cannot be spoken of for those who are already out of school and are looking for somebody they barely know to build a relationship with, most of the opportunities that surface usually end up as a “trial and error”.

 



Therefore, I am opined that, apart from learning and skill development which is imparted at school, it is also an opportunity where good relationship structures can be built.
The only disadvantage I see in engaging in sexual relationship while at school is distraction from academics, but if folks can keep themselves in check and also desist from entering relationship in the early stages of their stay at school, it can work.

Distractions are normal things for everyone to face, a universal examination that everyone go through and it should not be an excuse for not going into relationship.
However, I must highlight here that, by sexual relationships, I do not mean that the parties involved can perform illicit acts while at school, but I am talking about the beautiful sexual relationship of love, affection, hopes and passion that leads into the beautiful institution that we call “marriage”, where the certificate called “beautiful kids” is received. It should remain clean and the parties undefiled until the marriage tent has been entered.

Source:  EDUREGARD

Don’t do any of these if you are trying to get a girlfriend

  

The reason ladies choose to date your mates but not you isn’t entirely because you’re broke, which is the reason most men go for.

There’s a really simple explanation to your chronic singleness: you are doing your very best to not have a girlfriend. 

All your actions say ‘I really don’t want women to give me a chance at love’. It’s time to stop if you do any of these:

• You’re trying too hard to prove you’re a really cool guy. Most women can spot genuine attitudes from a 20 mile radius, so putting on airs will eventually work against you. You may think women like the gloss and pomp of a cool dude, but in actual fact they see you as superficial and insecure.

• Not all women are out for your money (and you don’t even have as much money as you like to believe). Things have changed over the years, women are assertive about how capable they are of looking after themselves; they wouldn’t have you insult their dignity by thinking they like you because of your money. Do you really want to not have a girlfriend? Then keep squawking about “materialistic girls” to every new girl you meet.

• You’re afraid of rejection so you treat women like trash, hoping they will sidle up to you instead. If you go to the trouble of convincing women that you’re an ass because ‘ women like bad guys’, they actually will see you as an ass and stay away from you. Not all women are looking for bad boys to date, so just come as you are.

• You say the most inappropriate things and call them jokes- Though this may not be deliberate, offensive jokes rub of women the wrong way. Your male friends may find them funny, but that’s where it ends. If you want to find love, I advise that you find more girlfriend-appropriate jokes.

Source : PulseNG

Relationship on campus : Should Students Really Go Into It ?

The issue of a having relationship(s) while in school is a major one in our society. Different factions give different opinions on the effects of school relationships. Therefore, this article is solely based on on my own viewpoint. To begin with, I would like to fully lay down in my opinion the entailments of such relationships among students. This relationships are meant to be casual one with no strings attached. They are simply meant to amplify the fun of school life. However, certain people put in too much in this relationships which usually results in broken hearts. Also, school relationship is a great opportunity to learn more about the opposite sex. It helps in gaining a reasonable and general understanding of members of the opposite sex. For example, guys can learn that most girls don’t usually mean what they say. It helps one develop the tolerance of certain attitudes of their opposite counterparts. Moreover, these relationships sometimes open up opportunities to greater ones such as business partnerships and marriage. In committing to memory this point always remember that breakups could also close up certain opportunities For instance, breaking up with your future boss may not be for your own good. Therefore, you should manage these relationships carefully and treat your partner with care. Finally, school(university) is probably one of the few places with so many single people ready to mingle. Therefore, you should use the opportunity wisely and to your advantage. In conclusion, I feel that school relationships are great if properly managed and carried out in a proper moral sense. Most importantly, such relationships should not be taken too seriously in order to avoid stories that touch the heart.

Ways to know if he is into you

Not knowing where you stand in someone's life can be very frustrating, especially when you like the person.

A lot of times, women can't tell if a man is really into them, or he is merely just enjoying the thrill of the chase.If you find yourself in such a situation, here are five things you should look out for. These will help you decide if he wants you for the long haul or not.

1. He is persistent:

He will be persistent in his attempts to get closer to you, even if you are already dating. No, this does not mean he is clingy and irrationally jealous, he is just unrelenting in his efforts to completely win your heart.

He continuously shows his commitment to being with you for eternity with his words and actions.

2. He plans the future with you:

He does not make any plans without putting you in consideration. Unlike other guys who are afraid to discuss the future, he is not afraid to plan one with you at all.

Whatever his plans for the future are, they include you and he creates room to accommodate you in whatever his future plans are.

3. He shows you the deepest parts of himself:When he is with you, it is almost as if he is a completely different person. If he is shy and quiet outside, he will be playful and discuss just about anything when he is alone with you.

He lays himself bare and exposed his vulnerabilities to you. When he is alone with you, he allows his deepest and truest parts show.

4. He'd do anything to please you:

He will do everything within his power to make and keep you happy. He will go the extra mile just to bring a smile to your face, even if the trip is not convenient.

5. He will ask for your hand in marriage:

Well, that's pretty obvious. When a man wants you in his life forever, he actually asks you her to become his wife and spend the rest of her life with him.

Source;  PulseNG