Do you think you are mature in relationships? Relationships can come with their own unique struggles, but there are some things that are universally immature and worth avoiding for a happier relationship.
Check out 15 things mature women don’t do in relationships.
1. They Don’t Sacrifice Other Relationships
Many people drift apart from their friends during a relationship. While this is understandable during the initial ‘honeymoon’ period, it is important to remember that that your friends and family have been in your life for far longer than your partner. Mature women make sure they have a happy balance between all of their loved ones.
2. They Don’t Forget To Thank Their Partner
After you have been in a relationship for a while, it can be easy to forget to appreciate all of the little things that they do for you. Mature women realize that sharing your life with someone is a gift – so don’t forget to say please and thank you!
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3. They Don’t Give Up Financial Independence
No matter how well off your partner is, completely giving up your financial independence can actually mean giving up your independence. Mature women don’t have to ask their partner for everything – it makes them feel proud and happy to be able to buy things with their own money.
4. They Don’t Focus On Their Partner’s Bad Traits
Mature women try to focus on their partner’s best traits rather than the negative ones. They focus on the good things their partner does and says, and they try not to judge their partner for their flaws, instead understanding that they too have flaws.
5. They Don’t Give Up Their Dreams
Mature women understand that a great relationship doesn’t drag you down – instead, it should bring out the best in you. A good relationship encourages you to pursue your dreams, and a mature woman would struggle to be happy in a relationship if she stopped following her dreams.
6. They Don’t Think Their Version Of Happiness Is The Only One
Mature women understand that everyone’s idea of happiness is different. If their partner enjoys space, they give it to them, and if they enjoy affection, they give them that instead. Most importantly, they do not make assumptions about how to make their partner happy.
7. They Don’t Give Up Their Self Respect
It is normal to change slightly during a relationship, but mature women don’t allow their relationships to take away their self- respect. They don’t allow their partners to speak to them negatively or condescendingly – they expect their partner to treat them just as well as everyone else in their life.
8. They Don’t Take “I Love You” Lightly
Mature women understand the importance of those three words, so they work hard to keep the words special, no matter how long they have been with their partner. They don’t say ‘I love you’ at the end of every conversation – instead they say it at the right moments, to show their partner how much they appreciate them.
9. They Don’t Give Up Their Happiness
Mature women understand the importance of their happiness, and that if they are not happy in a relationship, they shouldn’t be in one. They are aware that their partner is a part of their happiness, and should be someone who can bring them happiness when they are feeling sad.
10. They Don’t Feel Like They Need To Always Be
In Contact With Their Partner
Mature women do not need constant contact in their relationships, as they have their own busy lives. They are secure enough to trust their partner when they are not with them, and find non-stop emailing and texting to be a waste of their own time.
11. They Don’t Let Their Partner Make All The
Decisions
In a mature relationship both partners respect each other’s decisions. This can range from big decisions, such as getting married and having children, to smaller ones, like which restaurant to eat at tonight. Either way, your partner should always consider and respect your decisions – and vice versa!
12. They Don’t Share Their Relationship With The
World
Mature women understand the value of keeping their relationship between themselves and their partner. They dislike the idea of the world knowing their business, so they avoid discussing their arguments on social media and instead focus on communicating with their partner to solve the problem.
13. They Don’t Give Up Their Space
Mature women know that no matter how great their relationship is, they still occasionally need time alone. From going to the gym to curling up with a good book, mature women value their time alone and actively seek out ‘me-time’.
14. They Don’t Resent Their Partner’s
Achievements Mature women understand that loving someone means you want them to be as happy as possible. They embrace their partner’s happiness and celebrate their achievements with them, rather than holding their partners back for more selfish reasons.
15. They Don’t Give Up Their Identity
When you start a new relationship, it is normal to become interested in your partner’s hobbies and interests. It can be a lot of fun to share interests together, but mature women do not let themselves lose their own interests and hobbies for someone else. Instead, they remain interested in both their partner’s hobbies and their own.
Wednesday, July 6, 2016
Institutions May Have No Other Choice But To Adopt FG's Directive
A source has disclosed that Vice chancellors of federal, state and private universities that were present at the recently concluded meeting convened by JAMB to determine the admission screening model may have no other choice but to submit to the FG's directive that post-UTME be scrapped.
It was learnt that the vice chancellors attended the meeting with their minds prepared to defend their stand on Post- UTME but were told that the FG's directive on the issue is final.
The source noted that the Vice Chancellors were categorically told to cancel any other form of screening they have announced and refund the money paid to the candidates.
It was learnt that the vice chancellors attended the meeting with their minds prepared to defend their stand on Post- UTME but were told that the FG's directive on the issue is final.
The source noted that the Vice Chancellors were categorically told to cancel any other form of screening they have announced and refund the money paid to the candidates.
Institutions May Have No Other Choice But To Adopt FG's Directive
A source has disclosed that Vice chancellors of federal, state and private universities that were present at the recently concluded meeting convened by JAMB to determine the admission screening model may have no other choice but to submit to the FG's directive that post-UTME be scrapped.
It was learnt that the vice chancellors attended the meeting with their minds prepared to defend their stand on Post- UTME but were told that the FG's directive on the issue is final.
The source noted that the Vice Chancellors were categorically told to cancel any other form of screening they have announced and refund the money paid to the candidates.
It was learnt that the vice chancellors attended the meeting with their minds prepared to defend their stand on Post- UTME but were told that the FG's directive on the issue is final.
The source noted that the Vice Chancellors were categorically told to cancel any other form of screening they have announced and refund the money paid to the candidates.
(Detailed)Breakdown of the Modalities for 2016/2017 Admission processes Into Higher institutions as was released by JAMB
1. The meeting was held at:
B.O Ukeje Auditorium, Nation Commission for colleges of Education, Central Business District Abuja.... on Tuesday 28th for Federal institutions, Wed 29th for state institutions and Thursday 30th June 2016 for Private institutions....
The meeting was for stakeholders and educational bodies to work out the modalities of screening candidates duly recommended for admission.
Due to the National importance of the meeting, it was chaired by the permanent secretary to the ministry of Education, this is to ensure that the honorable minister's directives on the scrapping of postume and the modalities is STRICTLY ADHERED TO.
2. ADMISSION CRITERIA FOR ALL
INSTITUTIONS-
A- CONVENTIONAL INSTITUTIONS Universities and colleges of Education To Admit 60% Science and 40% Arts
B- SPECIALIZED INSTITUTIONS Varsities of technology, Agriculture etc To admit 100% sciences ( but 80% sciences and 20% others..... For state varsity and colleges of Education)
C- Polytechnic and colleges of Technology To admit 70% Sciences and 30% Arts
3. UTME/DIRECT ENTRY ratio To Admit 90% UTME ". ". 10% DE Where the 10% for DE is not utilized, UTME candidates should be used in completing the quota
4. ISSUES TO NOTE BY ALL Institutions....
The list of candidates that has crossed the
minimum cutoff of Jamb but were not admitted into a particular institution should be forwarded back to jamb, as this candidates will be redistributed to other institutions who need them for consideration.....most preferably their 2nd choice institution....
(This means that those who scored the general cutoff say 180 or 200 and above but couldn't reach the departmental cutoff and were not admitted will be forward to other institution for admission consideration, just like eligibility stuff last year)
5. STUDY HERE PROPERLY,
In the Meeting, Jamb did some evaluations on processes some universities has been following in the former years as a case study, they used this two varsities which don't normally write pume as a case study but uses screening method: these are:
Abubakar Tafawa Balewa University and its affiliates 2015/2016 mode of admission, Jamb made remarked on the life span of certificates (O-level) which the school indicated as 5yrs only for you to be admitted, and Jamb also made remarks on
how much this varsity collects from aspirants
Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida's who use jamb grading systems like 180- 185 as 20 points, 186-190 as 21 points and So on... Jamb faulted and made remarks on
1. why they should screen candidates before recommendation and presentation
to jamb
2. The weighted course requirements and grades put some students to disadvantage
3. fees charged for screening, HOW
MUCH??
In the meeting, Jamb made some sampled printouts of some federal universities that do conduct written exams.... Using Futo,
unilorin, uniabuja, and Unilag as a case study
Using FUTO Mechanical Engineering department as an example, they have the
capacity to admit a total number of 193 for that department... they suppose to admit 87 on merit, 68 for catchments( they have 5 catchments states, so 68 divided by 5 = 13.5, so they suppose to admit 14 for each catchment states), 39 for EDLS (they have 23 EDLS so 39/23 = 1.6~ 2 for each EDLS)....
But they summary/outcome jamb gave for futo was: 92:70:14 for merit: catchment: ELDS
Unilorin admission for law which has a
capacity of 89 was also used and the outcome was that they admitted a total of 70 instead of 89 using merit, catchments and ElDS....
Uniabuja with a capacity of 444 for Economics department admitted just 370
Unilag with a capacity of 280 for law department had a summary/outcome of 270 instead of 280...
For private institution, they used about 5 institutions as case study, where Covenant varsity, with 111 capacity for Engineering end up admitting just 45 (I guess due to lack of candidates), Salem varsity Lokoja which have a capacity to admit 20 for computer Engineering ended up admitting just 8 (due to lack of candidates) and so on for the remaining 3 varsities used as sample....
For State institutions: Imsu, Lautech, Kaduna. State varsity and 2 others were used, the outcome looked partly like federal uni outcome for those state varsity like imsu who have candidates every year and some outcomes looked like that of private varsity for some state universities that lacks candidates every year...
6. After the whole evaluation, JAMB came up with this As the MODALITIES TO BE TAKEN THIS YEAR By All institutions:
PROPOSED JAMB MODEL FOR SCREENING OF RECOMMENDED CANDIDATES*
1. Screening of candidates shall be for
those offered *Provisional Admissions*
ONLY.
2. No *written examination* to be
conducted
3. Verification of Course Requirements (O
levels or A levels)
4. Verification of valid JAMB results by
checking:_
_i.Online Result Slip_ _ii.Printout_
_iii.Provisional Admission Letter_
_iv.Photo Album_
_v.Check list_
_vi.Biometrics
*5. Institutions are free to source from other Course(s) to compensate for SHORTFALL in any of the criteria..
This new method uses a point system that is easy to understand, the whole process is divided into main points as follows;
1) Before a candidate can seat be considered for screening, he/she must have been given provisional admission by Jamb. The Jamb admission checker portal is going to be opened soon for this process, so praying is all you can do now.
2) THE POINT SYSTEM:
This is the most critical part of the process. Jamb's provisional admission no longer makes much sense this year, your points tally will decide your faith. The points are evenly spread out between your O'level and Jamb results to provide a level playing field for all.
In the first case, any candidate who submits only one result which contains his/her relevant subjects already has 10points, the exam could be NECO, WAEC, GCE etc, but any candidate who has 2 sittings only gets 3 points. So this means that aspirants with only one result are at an advantage but only just.
The next point grades fall into the O'level
grades. Each grades has it's equivalent point, A=6 marks, B=4 marks, C=3 marks, so the better your grades the better your chances.
The next point is the UTME scores. Each score range has its equivalent point which can be summarized thus, 180-200=20-23 marks, 200-250=24-33 points, 251-300=34-43, 300-400=44-60 points. Each categories contains 5 Jamb results per point added, for example a candidate with 180-185 gets 20points, a candidate with 186-190 gets 21 points etc. Points system for DE will be released soon.
3) It then comes down to the fact that fees will still be charged for screening, it depends on the school as well.
4) Catchment and ELDS will still be used!
[Download] PDF for Meeting on Modalities federal university <<
[Download] PDF for Meeting on Modalities private university <<
[Download] PDF for Meeting on Modalitiesstate university <<
B.O Ukeje Auditorium, Nation Commission for colleges of Education, Central Business District Abuja.... on Tuesday 28th for Federal institutions, Wed 29th for state institutions and Thursday 30th June 2016 for Private institutions....
The meeting was for stakeholders and educational bodies to work out the modalities of screening candidates duly recommended for admission.
Due to the National importance of the meeting, it was chaired by the permanent secretary to the ministry of Education, this is to ensure that the honorable minister's directives on the scrapping of postume and the modalities is STRICTLY ADHERED TO.
2. ADMISSION CRITERIA FOR ALL
INSTITUTIONS-
A- CONVENTIONAL INSTITUTIONS Universities and colleges of Education To Admit 60% Science and 40% Arts
B- SPECIALIZED INSTITUTIONS Varsities of technology, Agriculture etc To admit 100% sciences ( but 80% sciences and 20% others..... For state varsity and colleges of Education)
C- Polytechnic and colleges of Technology To admit 70% Sciences and 30% Arts
3. UTME/DIRECT ENTRY ratio To Admit 90% UTME ". ". 10% DE Where the 10% for DE is not utilized, UTME candidates should be used in completing the quota
4. ISSUES TO NOTE BY ALL Institutions....
The list of candidates that has crossed the
minimum cutoff of Jamb but were not admitted into a particular institution should be forwarded back to jamb, as this candidates will be redistributed to other institutions who need them for consideration.....most preferably their 2nd choice institution....
(This means that those who scored the general cutoff say 180 or 200 and above but couldn't reach the departmental cutoff and were not admitted will be forward to other institution for admission consideration, just like eligibility stuff last year)
5. STUDY HERE PROPERLY,
In the Meeting, Jamb did some evaluations on processes some universities has been following in the former years as a case study, they used this two varsities which don't normally write pume as a case study but uses screening method: these are:
Abubakar Tafawa Balewa University and its affiliates 2015/2016 mode of admission, Jamb made remarked on the life span of certificates (O-level) which the school indicated as 5yrs only for you to be admitted, and Jamb also made remarks on
how much this varsity collects from aspirants
Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida's who use jamb grading systems like 180- 185 as 20 points, 186-190 as 21 points and So on... Jamb faulted and made remarks on
1. why they should screen candidates before recommendation and presentation
to jamb
2. The weighted course requirements and grades put some students to disadvantage
3. fees charged for screening, HOW
MUCH??
In the meeting, Jamb made some sampled printouts of some federal universities that do conduct written exams.... Using Futo,
unilorin, uniabuja, and Unilag as a case study
Using FUTO Mechanical Engineering department as an example, they have the
capacity to admit a total number of 193 for that department... they suppose to admit 87 on merit, 68 for catchments( they have 5 catchments states, so 68 divided by 5 = 13.5, so they suppose to admit 14 for each catchment states), 39 for EDLS (they have 23 EDLS so 39/23 = 1.6~ 2 for each EDLS)....
But they summary/outcome jamb gave for futo was: 92:70:14 for merit: catchment: ELDS
Unilorin admission for law which has a
capacity of 89 was also used and the outcome was that they admitted a total of 70 instead of 89 using merit, catchments and ElDS....
Uniabuja with a capacity of 444 for Economics department admitted just 370
Unilag with a capacity of 280 for law department had a summary/outcome of 270 instead of 280...
For private institution, they used about 5 institutions as case study, where Covenant varsity, with 111 capacity for Engineering end up admitting just 45 (I guess due to lack of candidates), Salem varsity Lokoja which have a capacity to admit 20 for computer Engineering ended up admitting just 8 (due to lack of candidates) and so on for the remaining 3 varsities used as sample....
For State institutions: Imsu, Lautech, Kaduna. State varsity and 2 others were used, the outcome looked partly like federal uni outcome for those state varsity like imsu who have candidates every year and some outcomes looked like that of private varsity for some state universities that lacks candidates every year...
6. After the whole evaluation, JAMB came up with this As the MODALITIES TO BE TAKEN THIS YEAR By All institutions:
PROPOSED JAMB MODEL FOR SCREENING OF RECOMMENDED CANDIDATES*
1. Screening of candidates shall be for
those offered *Provisional Admissions*
ONLY.
2. No *written examination* to be
conducted
3. Verification of Course Requirements (O
levels or A levels)
4. Verification of valid JAMB results by
checking:_
_i.Online Result Slip_ _ii.Printout_
_iii.Provisional Admission Letter_
_iv.Photo Album_
_v.Check list_
_vi.Biometrics
*5. Institutions are free to source from other Course(s) to compensate for SHORTFALL in any of the criteria..
This new method uses a point system that is easy to understand, the whole process is divided into main points as follows;
1) Before a candidate can seat be considered for screening, he/she must have been given provisional admission by Jamb. The Jamb admission checker portal is going to be opened soon for this process, so praying is all you can do now.
2) THE POINT SYSTEM:
This is the most critical part of the process. Jamb's provisional admission no longer makes much sense this year, your points tally will decide your faith. The points are evenly spread out between your O'level and Jamb results to provide a level playing field for all.
In the first case, any candidate who submits only one result which contains his/her relevant subjects already has 10points, the exam could be NECO, WAEC, GCE etc, but any candidate who has 2 sittings only gets 3 points. So this means that aspirants with only one result are at an advantage but only just.
The next point grades fall into the O'level
grades. Each grades has it's equivalent point, A=6 marks, B=4 marks, C=3 marks, so the better your grades the better your chances.
The next point is the UTME scores. Each score range has its equivalent point which can be summarized thus, 180-200=20-23 marks, 200-250=24-33 points, 251-300=34-43, 300-400=44-60 points. Each categories contains 5 Jamb results per point added, for example a candidate with 180-185 gets 20points, a candidate with 186-190 gets 21 points etc. Points system for DE will be released soon.
3) It then comes down to the fact that fees will still be charged for screening, it depends on the school as well.
4) Catchment and ELDS will still be used!
[Download] PDF for Meeting on Modalities federal university <<
[Download] PDF for Meeting on Modalities private university <<
[Download] PDF for Meeting on Modalitiesstate university <<
UNIBEN Set To Refund Money Paid By Post-UTME 2016 Candidates
Indication shows that University of Benin in line with the directive of the Minster of Education has commenced the process of refunding post-UTME 2016 candidates the money paid during registration.
The institution has directed that candidates who have register for the exercise proceed to the application portal to provide their bank details.
The message on the university's application portal reads, "All candidates that successfully paid for the screening exercise are requested to go back to their application records and enter their bank details... Thank you"
The institution has directed that candidates who have register for the exercise proceed to the application portal to provide their bank details.
The message on the university's application portal reads, "All candidates that successfully paid for the screening exercise are requested to go back to their application records and enter their bank details... Thank you"
FG Extends Eid-il-Fitr Public Holidays To 7th July 2016
The Federal Government today extended the Eid-il-Fitr holiday to Thursday 7th, July 2016.
This was contained in a statement issued by the Minister of Interior, Abdulrahman Dambazau and signed by the Permanent Secretary in the ministry, Bassey Akpanyung in Abuja.
According to him, the Sultan of Sokoto, Sa’ad Abubakar III, has disclosed that the Ramadan fast will continue till Tuesday due to the “non-sighting of the moon” heralding the month of Shawwal in the Muslim calendar.
Following this, the federal government has now declared Wednesday and Thursday as public holiday.
He urged Nigerians to use this period of sober reflections to ensure harmony, unity and peaceful co-existence abd at the same time give their full support to the administration of President Muhammadu Buhari in his sustained effort to pursue socio-economic and political growth of the nation.
This was contained in a statement issued by the Minister of Interior, Abdulrahman Dambazau and signed by the Permanent Secretary in the ministry, Bassey Akpanyung in Abuja.
According to him, the Sultan of Sokoto, Sa’ad Abubakar III, has disclosed that the Ramadan fast will continue till Tuesday due to the “non-sighting of the moon” heralding the month of Shawwal in the Muslim calendar.
Following this, the federal government has now declared Wednesday and Thursday as public holiday.
He urged Nigerians to use this period of sober reflections to ensure harmony, unity and peaceful co-existence abd at the same time give their full support to the administration of President Muhammadu Buhari in his sustained effort to pursue socio-economic and political growth of the nation.
FG Extends Eid-il-Fitr Public Holidays To 7th July 2016
The Federal Government today extended the Eid-il-Fitr holiday to Thursday 7th, July 2016.
This was contained in a statement issued by the Minister of Interior, Abdulrahman Dambazau and signed by the Permanent Secretary in the ministry, Bassey Akpanyung in Abuja.
According to him, the Sultan of Sokoto, Sa’ad Abubakar III, has disclosed that the Ramadan fast will continue till Tuesday due to the “non-sighting of the moon” heralding the month of Shawwal in the Muslim calendar.
Following this, the federal government has now declared Wednesday and Thursday as public holiday.
He urged Nigerians to use this period of sober reflections to ensure harmony, unity and peaceful co-existence abd at the same time give their full support to the administration of President Muhammadu Buhari in his sustained effort to pursue socio-economic and political growth of the nation.
This was contained in a statement issued by the Minister of Interior, Abdulrahman Dambazau and signed by the Permanent Secretary in the ministry, Bassey Akpanyung in Abuja.
According to him, the Sultan of Sokoto, Sa’ad Abubakar III, has disclosed that the Ramadan fast will continue till Tuesday due to the “non-sighting of the moon” heralding the month of Shawwal in the Muslim calendar.
Following this, the federal government has now declared Wednesday and Thursday as public holiday.
He urged Nigerians to use this period of sober reflections to ensure harmony, unity and peaceful co-existence abd at the same time give their full support to the administration of President Muhammadu Buhari in his sustained effort to pursue socio-economic and political growth of the nation.
JAMB Proposed Model For Screening Of Recommended Candidates
The Joint Admission And Matriculation Board held a meeting at the B.O Ukeje Auditorium, Nation Commission for colleges of Education, Central Business District Abuja on Tuesday 28th, 29th and 30th to map out admission screening modalities for Colleges of education, polytechnics and Universities.
The meeting was chaired by the permanent secretary ministry of education, Dr. Shade Yemi-Esan.
After evaluating the screening models of some schools in previous years and other factors surrounding the admission processes in tertiary institution in the country, JAMB released a proposed model for the screening of recommended candidates.
PROPOSED JAMB MODEL FOR SCREENING OF
RECOMMENDED CANDIDATES
1. Screening of candidates shall be for ONLY candidates recommended for admissions.
2. No written examination to be conducted.
3. Verification of Course Requirements (O’ levels or A’ levels).
4. Verification of valid JAMB results by checking:
i. Online Result Slip
ii. Printout
iii. Provisional Admission Letter
iv. Photo Album
v. Checklist
vi. Biometrics
5. Institutions are free to source from other Course(s) to compensate for SHORTFALL in any of the criteria.
Note:
The list of candidates that have scored above the minimum cut-off mark, and are NOT admitted may be forwarded to other institutions that need them for consideration.
Especially their Second (2nd) Choice institutions of preferences.
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The meeting was chaired by the permanent secretary ministry of education, Dr. Shade Yemi-Esan.
After evaluating the screening models of some schools in previous years and other factors surrounding the admission processes in tertiary institution in the country, JAMB released a proposed model for the screening of recommended candidates.
PROPOSED JAMB MODEL FOR SCREENING OF
RECOMMENDED CANDIDATES
1. Screening of candidates shall be for ONLY candidates recommended for admissions.
2. No written examination to be conducted.
3. Verification of Course Requirements (O’ levels or A’ levels).
4. Verification of valid JAMB results by checking:
i. Online Result Slip
ii. Printout
iii. Provisional Admission Letter
iv. Photo Album
v. Checklist
vi. Biometrics
5. Institutions are free to source from other Course(s) to compensate for SHORTFALL in any of the criteria.
Note:
The list of candidates that have scored above the minimum cut-off mark, and are NOT admitted may be forwarded to other institutions that need them for consideration.
Especially their Second (2nd) Choice institutions of preferences.
download PDF
Sex and relationship : 5 reasons your relationship is heading for the rocks
Relationships are not always merry, it also goes
through a rough patch that determines whether you and your partner will make it or split. It's always advisable to try everything before calling
it quits despite you thinking letting go is the best way.
Often times couples find themselves within a vicious cycle that eventually tear them apart. In order to break from the cycle, you need to understand the reasons your relationship is not working out. Only then can you decide whether you want to work things out or whether you should just let go.
There are many different reasons why your relationship might not be going as planned, but the following five are the most common reasons for relationship failure.
Read also : Sex and Relatoinship : 6 Ways To Know You Are In A Relationship With A Liar/Cheater
1. Picking faults
Lastly, too often we tend to pick faults in our partner. It might be well gestured, but expecting someone to change everything about themselves makes them feel like they are unloved and even unwanted. Both partners need to be a little tolerant and forgiving when it comes to each other’s mistakes, and they should let go instead of harboring their feelings. If you’re both constantly playing the blame game, then it’s unlikely you’ll be able to break away from the vicious cycles that is tearing your relationship apart.
2. Too much time
If you’re spending every waking moment with each other, then get ready for some serious problems. It’s natural that when we all need time for ourselves. While you or your partner might love spending time with each other, if both of you are scheduling time away from each other, your relationship might be suffering.
3. Jealousy
Too often one person in a relationship might start going a little green. Jealousy can be related to someone else or even your own partner. While this normally occurs because that person might be feeling distant, insecure and threatened, it can have disastrous effects on a relationship. The best way to deal with is to increase security in terms of your relationship and within one’s own self.
4. Not enough time
If one of you is always out doing your own thing, then it becomes hard to feel close and connect. And that leads to one or both of you feeling unloved. While many times you may feel like you just don’t have enough time to give your partner but you should always try to take out time for your partner or at least give them the attention they deserve once you are with them.
Read also : Sex and Relationships : Ways To Know If It’s Real Love Or not
5. Selfishness
Being in a relationship means thinking about and taking care of someone other than yourself. Additionally it means acting selflessly without expecting return. Selfishness drives couples apart like nothing else. Both partners need to be compromising and understanding in order to make the relationship flourish.
Remember that managing a relationship is a two way effort, both of you need to make a conscious effort to make it work. Starting a relationship is easy, maintaining it is a whole different ball game. Try to find out which of these 5 reasons are threatening the survival of your relationship and create a battle plan on how you want to handle the situation.
through a rough patch that determines whether you and your partner will make it or split. It's always advisable to try everything before calling
it quits despite you thinking letting go is the best way.
Often times couples find themselves within a vicious cycle that eventually tear them apart. In order to break from the cycle, you need to understand the reasons your relationship is not working out. Only then can you decide whether you want to work things out or whether you should just let go.
There are many different reasons why your relationship might not be going as planned, but the following five are the most common reasons for relationship failure.
Read also : Sex and Relatoinship : 6 Ways To Know You Are In A Relationship With A Liar/Cheater
1. Picking faults
Lastly, too often we tend to pick faults in our partner. It might be well gestured, but expecting someone to change everything about themselves makes them feel like they are unloved and even unwanted. Both partners need to be a little tolerant and forgiving when it comes to each other’s mistakes, and they should let go instead of harboring their feelings. If you’re both constantly playing the blame game, then it’s unlikely you’ll be able to break away from the vicious cycles that is tearing your relationship apart.
2. Too much time
If you’re spending every waking moment with each other, then get ready for some serious problems. It’s natural that when we all need time for ourselves. While you or your partner might love spending time with each other, if both of you are scheduling time away from each other, your relationship might be suffering.
3. Jealousy
Too often one person in a relationship might start going a little green. Jealousy can be related to someone else or even your own partner. While this normally occurs because that person might be feeling distant, insecure and threatened, it can have disastrous effects on a relationship. The best way to deal with is to increase security in terms of your relationship and within one’s own self.
4. Not enough time
If one of you is always out doing your own thing, then it becomes hard to feel close and connect. And that leads to one or both of you feeling unloved. While many times you may feel like you just don’t have enough time to give your partner but you should always try to take out time for your partner or at least give them the attention they deserve once you are with them.
Read also : Sex and Relationships : Ways To Know If It’s Real Love Or not
5. Selfishness
Being in a relationship means thinking about and taking care of someone other than yourself. Additionally it means acting selflessly without expecting return. Selfishness drives couples apart like nothing else. Both partners need to be compromising and understanding in order to make the relationship flourish.
Remember that managing a relationship is a two way effort, both of you need to make a conscious effort to make it work. Starting a relationship is easy, maintaining it is a whole different ball game. Try to find out which of these 5 reasons are threatening the survival of your relationship and create a battle plan on how you want to handle the situation.
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