Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Habits of Highly Successful Students. LearnThem and Start Succeeding

 You should never take the back seat in your life. Letting
someone else make life decisions for you could be very
harmful to your well being in general.
Your life passes you by slowly when you don't take control
of everything that concerns you which could affect your
relationship with others. Always remember it's your life and
no one else's.
Jodie Brownell of All Women Stalk lists 10 important
life decision every girl and woman should make to herself:

To live every moment to the absolute fullest!:
Hey girl, have you felt bored or sluggish lately? If so, it's
because you have not made the decision to live every
moment to the fullest! You only have so many days on
this earth, so make the effort to live the best life ever!
Even those days that seem endless can turn into the best
day of your life, but you have to be one to change your
outlook and mood! Don't wait for the perfect moment to
start living, NO, take the moment and make it the best
one ever!
. To allow herself room for improvement and
multiple chances!: Are you a perfectionist who needs
to get everything right the first time? Or do you tend to
crawl into a ball and cry of shame after you make a
mistake? If so, honey relax. You are human and bound to
make some mistakes here and now. So understand that
you are imperfect...but also how that is what makes you
perfect! You are a perfectly imperfect young woman, so
own that!
. To love her body, take good care of it & be
proud of it!: Your body is your dear temple, so take care
of it. Stop feeding it so much junk, stop shaming it with
negative self-image talk, just love it and it will take care of
you in return. Remember, your body is your body. No one
has the right to label it, restrict it, take advantage of it, etc.
So own who you are, and be proud!!
. To pursue her dreams & let nothing stand in
her way!: You know that little feeling you have that
wants to soar through life and accomplish your destiny?
If you do, listen to it and follow it! This feeling is your
passion and your calling to life. Don't wait any longer to
go after your dreams. You were born for a purpose and
now it's time to start living it out! Also don't let other's
small imagination and negative words keep you from
following your dreams. Just ignore them and find a new
support system!
. To say "Yes" to new opportunities that will help
her grow!: This goes hand in hand with following your
dreams. Have you found yourself hesitant to take risks
and say "yes" to new opportunities? If so, why? Are you
scared, too comfortable where you are, or think that you
don't deserve it? If so, let me remind you of three things:
First of all, everything you want in life is on the other side
of fear. 2nd, life is about going beyond your comfort
zone, for that is the only way you grow. Finally, you
deserve it, honey!...every inch of you deserves to live the
best life your could ever imagine!!
. To never underestimate her worth and never
settle for less than she deserves: You are worth
more than you could ever imagine, so never settle for less
than what you deserve! And this goes for everything; job,
relationships, and all!
. To have patience & love towards herself and
others: One of the best qualities a woman can have is
patience and love towards others and herself. You should
always have high standards, but that does not mean you
have the right to have a bad attitude. Remember the
saying; treat others the way you want to be treated, well
why not start living this way? What

Things High Achievers Don’t Do

High achievers have high ambitions; they live above
situations and never rest on their laurels. They are
deeply motivated and follow a set of habits that will
drive them to achievements. It is not about settling, it
is about going the extra mile to make a lasting
impression on everyone else. Here are ten things high
achievers don’t do.

They don’t
listen to
conventional
thinking
Most times
people may
not find this an
appealing
quality as they
find more
delight in approaching
problems through
unconventional paths.
They ignore popular advice
and channels and take the
ideal route that not only
appeals to them but
assures them of the
needed result.
They don’t associate
with underachievers
CEO of Facebook, Mark
Zuckerberg never fails to
thank his teammates for
the progress they make as a unit. In order to get more
done, achievers do not keep company with
underachievers. They understand that success is not
only in people but being with the right kind of people.
Connections to people of like-minds offer them the
needed growth to accomplish their pursuits.
They don’t swing with mediocrity
They commit themselves to excellence and follow
through on a goal. According to Vince Lombardi,
commitment to excellence is proportional to the
quality of one’s life. It is not about your area of
expertise, following the path of an achiever requires
consistency and an intolerance of mediocrity. Every
high achiever is not satisfied with a below par
performance because they know how impacting
excellence can be.They don’t wait for answers
While others will procrastinate, sit down and wait for
the moment to be right, achievers go at a goal even
when they may seemingly not be ready for the
success. They don’t wait for answers, they don’t sit
down to do nothing, but rather they get to work daily.
They are willing to brainstorm, troubleshoot and get
on with whatever will see an answer to a problem.
They don’t see success as being enough
While others are lulled after a particular success or a
certain accomplishment, the high achiever sees an
accomplishment only as a stepping stone to move to
the next climb. He knows that one success is not
enough to quench his taste for more success. High
achievers do not mind re-inventing or repositioning
themselves to make sure they reach the next success.
They don’t dwell on setbacks
Setbacks can be experienced every now and then. But
for the high achiever, failure and obstacle will only
trigger their desire to keep pushing. They see setbacks
as a part of the process of winning and accomplishing
something great.
They don’t clutter their lives
They know how to manage their lives to avoid
distractions and focused only on what is at hand. They
prioritize. They do not jump aimlessly from one
project to another. And if certain things are altering
their productivity, they terminate it and concentrate
on what will offer them the most obtainable results
now.
They don’t get bored
They pursue their passion, something that excites and
interests them. The challenge is always fun to them. It
spurs them and it is more like a religion to get their
desires attained. This drive will also inspire others to
flow in their direction and help them accomplish their
dreams.
They don’t wait for opportunities
Waiting for opportunities is like waiting for the rain to
pour. They don’t wait rather they make their own rain.
Counting and waiting for the right time, event and
everything to fall into place hinders the process of
getting what they want.
They don’t stay in bed late
Every high achiever wakes up early. They know a lot
can be done within those few hours before dawn.
Waking up early affords some productivity time to stay
ahead of competition. From media mogul Oprah
Winfrey, to CEO of Apple, they stay on top of their
game by waking up early.