Some men are naturally shy while some
don’t even know how to start. The thing is,
wooing a girl in public is simple and a lot
easier than when she’s alone. Here, we have
put this down to help you be a man, Lol.
Read carefully to the end.
1. Make Eye Contact:
If you see someone you’d
like to meet, try to make
eye contact before talking
to her. Once you catch her
eye, try to maintain eye
contact. If you repeatedly
make eye contact with
someone, it could be a sign
that she wants you to
approach her. Three
glances from a girl might
signal that she’s
interested. Why are eyes
so powerful? Science
seems to suggest that eye contact activates our brain’s
reward center, the ventral striatum. What does this
mean? Our DNA is telling us that someone staring at
you is cause for celebration! Smile. A friendly smile is a
great way to show someone that you’re interested in
them. If she returns the smile, that’s a good sign that
she might be interested. Once you’ve exchanged a few
glances and a smile, check her body language. This will
give you a better idea if she’s actually interested.
2. Check Body Language:
While reading another person’s body language, male
or female, is NOT an exact science, there are definitely
a few behaviors to look for that will signal that the
person is not interested in engaging in conversation.
Respect the girl’s right to be left alone. Is she facing
away from you? Are her arms crossed? Is she listening
to music, or reading a book? Is she frowning? Is she
specifically looking away from you? While not perfect
indicators, expressions and body language like this
probably means leave her alone. Body language is not
everything. Women are taught from childhood that
they must be pleasant no matter what. If you are
going to approach her, pay attention to how she
reacts and what she says.
3. Break The Ice:
Start with a simple ice-breaker. Perhaps you are
reading the same book, or you noticed she was
wearing a shirt that has a band you like. Perhaps the
bus is late and you can commiserate with her. If she
doesn’t seem interested in talking, leave her alone.
There are numerous ways to tell: not making eye
contact, monosyllabic answers, looking around for
some way out of the conversation. If she is interested
she will make that clear: eye contact, smiling,
sometimes leaning closer. Once you’ve approached
and established that she’s interested, proceed to
having a conversation.
4. Strike A Conversation:
This might flow naturally out of your ice-breaker
comment, but if not there are several ways to have a
conversation. Ask her if she made her earrings/dress/
other cool item. You could even say something like “I
couldn’t help but noticing how your dress matches
your eyes. It’s a great color.” It lets her know that you
think she’s attractive without dwelling on her looks.
Like anyone else, girls like to be appreciated for more
than just their appearance. If you’re in a place like a
bookstore or comic book store, ask her what her
favorite book is. Be sure to listen when she speaks.
You’ll find out more about her, have opportunities to
further the conversation, and show her that you are
interested in her as a person.
5. Make Plans To Meet Again: If she seems
interested and you are still interested, try and make
plans for a future meet-up. Give her your phone
number or email address. This way she feels in control
of the situation. You’ll know for certain that she’s
interested if she follows up. Ask for her phone number
or email address. If she says no, leave it. She doesn’t
owe you anything further, even if she did enjoy your
company.Ask her on an instant date. Ask her if she
wants to grab coffee somewhere. Always choose a
public place for an instant date; you want her to feel
comfortable. Have a coffee shop in mind if you do ask,
or ask her if she knows a good place. That way she will
feel in control of the situation.
6. Be Respectful: This is the absolute most
important part of approaching a girl in public, or in any
situation. If she is not interested back off. Remember,
different girls have different tastes in guys, or no taste
in guys. One girl might just feel that you’re not her
type. However, there might be another girl out there
who will think you’re awesome. Now that you’ve
finished reading this, feel free to share on your social
networks. Your friends will thank you for sharing this
piece of info with them. Goodluck guys!
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