As humans we all want a good life but the question
becomes how do I improve the quality of my life? The
quality of your life largely depends on your day to day
activities. Let’s quickly run through some things you
need to either start or stop doing to enjoy a better life.
WARNING : I will try to be as brief as possible but if I
end up writing a long piece please take your time to
read through. You didn’t pay me for this, just read but
if you don’t read now a time will come when you may
have to pay to read my writings. Lol it’s not a threat…..
1. Stop procrastinating. Procrastination is one of
the most effective weapons the devil has used and is
still using to hold people down so as to steal what
belongs to them. There are many ideas you may have
conceived but laziness has not allowed you to put it to
use, you keep saying today,
tomorrow. Hmmmmmm. My brother/sister you will be
poor ooo.
2. Stop living a loose life. At times I feel like crying
when I see how carelessly some people live. How
would a lady for heaven sake attend a birthday party,
drink herself to stupor and lie down on the corner of
the street till morning? Someone knows he is poor yet
he wants to date and sleep with every girl around.
Think about this.
3. Start celebrating other people’s success. I
know you understand this. There are people who just
hate it when others make progress. They feel it should
have been them. This habit has never and will never
take you far.
4. Stop being an . There are many forms of idiocy
but here I’m referring to those who laugh over
everything. They never take anything serious. You will
die young ooo (not you).
5. Stop self-servicing/watching
pornography. This is not a religious write up hence I
won’t want to delve into whether self-service or
pornography is a sin or not. All I can tell you is that it
reduces the quality of your life. self-service is addictive
and ones you start you will begin to seek isolation
at all times (so as to have full privacy to……). With time
this isolation habit will translate to a low self esteem
and a lack of confidence. This lack of confidence will
affect every area of your life. Lest I forget you tend to
loose memory easily.
6. Stop trying so hard to please everyone. I
said this before. Most times that I have failed it was
because I was trying to please one or more ‘gods’
Pleasing everyone will make you feel indebted to them
as if your life depends on them. RUBBISH!
7. Don’t make God your enemy. You are dead
without God…..
8. Stop wasting your energy on relationship
related matters. Seriously I’m guilty of this. I’m a
guy who loves with all my being. Today I was just
thinking of my woman in the vehicle and I felt like I
heard a voice saying ‘Felix if you start channeling all
these your thoughts to business related issues you will
be exceedingly rich. Why should you be wasting your
energy?’ unfortunately for me I just can’t stop but I’m
telling you to. Lol.
9. Stop smoking weed. You will die young.
10. Stop sleeping around. If you are a guy I know
your Fluid won’t dry up neither will your femalecore
cut as a female but whether you want to believe it or
not, every sex out of wedlock will culminate in curses
and misfortunes.
11. Never stop learning. Unfortunately for this
part of the world (Africa) we live in a society where
many people walk about with big heads but dead
brains. How will Africa develop? The day you stop
learning that day you die. I perceive I will be a very
‘wicked’ father because I will prepare a learning
journal for my children where they must write down
what new thing they learn daily. Seem like I’m asking
you to
be my child. But seriously, go learn a skill. There are
things which I reluctantly learned online but they are
earning me plenty of money today.
12. Let your YES be YES and your NO be NO..
13. Learn to give freely but don’t give to please,
give to assist
and you will be blessed.
14. Think big. If I tell you that nations will gather to
listen to me don’t laugh at me, I’m only thinking big.
The difference between the rich and the poor is their
way of thinking and not the money. Within the period
when Dantata gave Dangote 5k to start a business I’m
sure that there are poor people today
who had 10k in those days.
15. Be creative. Do you know why MTN and Etisalat
is still in business? They roll out new plans everyday to
tempt you to spend more. That’s creativity!
16. Be teachable. I was telling some youths the
other day that anytime you stop being teachable you
will stop being amiable and when you stop being
amiable you loose favour. Personally I easily hate
people who feel they know.
17. Build your self esteem. Maybe this is a topic
for another day but just know that no body will carry
you higher than you carry yourself. As a lady it will be
irresponsible for you to respond to any guy who calls
you on the street by saying SSSSS, SSSSS. Is that your
name? Yet you turn because you are desperate for a
husband. Lol. For the guys Hmmmmmm. If you see a
girl you want but you can’t even walk up to her
to at least strike up a good conversation, man you
need some cane. Even on Facebook, if I chat with you
on 3 occasions and in each you replied me with k and
5n or tnx, babe you don go be that ooo. Or you came
for an interview and you are shivering, no work for
you.
18. Care for your parents. You will enjoy life.
19. Don’t be too desperate. Naturally when
people notice you are desperate for something they
derive more pleasure in denying your request. I’m not
saying you shouldn’t lobby for that huge contract
oooo because if you go broke i won’t be there.
20. Learn to say thank you and to apologise
when you are
wrong.
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