First and foremost, there are many 20+ girls who are
still teens “mentally”- take your eyes off those balloons
one minute- She is still a teen! Don’t you get it?
She might lie about her age but…
Teens are officially humans from age 13-19. That
phase seemed to have come at them unexpected and
unprepared. That is observed the way they speak,
comment, react and relate.
The stage kinda offers
them the luxury of making
choices, especially selfish
ones.
I recently heard that the
rate of selfishness among
ladies and guys is like 5:3. I
heard.
Therefore, most teenage
guys quickly get past that
selfishness perimeter, but
ladies? Hmm!
1. How she relates
with you is totally
dependent on what her besties tell her.
This some times makes her indecisive and passive in
her actions towards you. Today she tells you one
thing, tomorrow, another. You can almost see a third
party with a kid’s gloves on.
2. She can’t make any relationship work
She may profess how ready she is to make it work, but
inside her is like a remote control, she just can’t fit! At
any slight disagreement in a “marriage-professed”
relationship, she quickly walks away- returns to
hibernate in “solo zone”!
3. A girl of excess fantasy with zero reality
I feel concerned when I see a “grown up” girl that
should be seeing the part of Miley Cyrus, Taylor Swift
or Selena Gomez that has a dream and won’t quit
working until it achieves it. Instead, she decides to see
the fancy and flexing part that wants to live in a
mansion of gold with zero grey matter. I see!
4. Mexican Love movies often becloud her
reasoning.
As earlier stated, she can be 30+, but if she thinks that
the love story in those movies are real enough to
inculcate it in her relationship, then; she is simply
running on the Engine of a Teenager. The movies sef
are even acted by teens! Hian!
5. At the early stage of your relationship, she
frequently play simple and “naive” games to
test your love for her.
Y’all know what y’all did… At least, before you ate
the forbidden apple…
6. She dresses, makes up, walks, talks,
speaks and acts like a “wannabee adult”
You can tell from her looks if you’ve got “the eye”. I do
not dispute the fact that there are many teens who
negate this point. They are quite good, 75% good
7. Highly Temperamental Displayed through
Mood Swings At Important Moments
The funny thing is, she doesn’t know why! You may call
it snubbing you, ignoring your calls… All of these and
more buttress my point.
There are just some things only age and maturity can
bring.
Relationship is quite an adventure with her kind of
partner in a boat.
I must add this, these young, inexperienced folks
always think they’re in love, especially with a much
older guy. She is not for you guys to explore and
deflower. If you snub my advice, what about Karma?
Why not let her go elsewhere or if you have the
strength, you coach her aright?
Friday, May 6, 2016
Tuesday, May 3, 2016
30 Signs You’re Going To Be Highly Successful (A MUSTREAD)
We all wanted to be the successful people we see in
magazines, in newspapers, and on the internet. What
qualities do these successful people possess that
bring them to their success? All successful people have
a set of characteristics and threads that enable them
to succeed.
Here are 30 signs that
show you are going to be
highly successful:
1. You can adapt to
change.
There will be times when
you know you have to
change, in order to move
forward when things are
not working as well as they
use to. You are not
affected negatively by any
changes that come your
way, instead you adapt to
the change and are flexible about it.
2. You are not one to complain.
You recognize that complaining is energy draining and
it does not bring you to accomplishing any productive
solutions in your situation. You choose to focus on
resolving the problem instead.
3. You spend your time productively.
You manage your time properly and you are always on
time in your meetings and appointments. You
plan your time productively so that you can utilize it
effectively to accomplish your goals.
4. You are self motivated.
You constantly take action and take initiatives without
having to be pushed by others.
5. You never hesitate to do more.
You are willing to do more than the job you have
been given. You know that doing more is an
opportunity for you to practice more, and also a way
to build your reputation.
6. You are willing to help others.
You understand that everybody needed help at some
point. As long as you are able, you are willing to lend a
helping hand to others.
7. You forgive.
You do not hold grudges or resent the people who
have hurt you in the past. You take the experience as a
lesson to be learned and thank them for making you a
stronger person.
8. You are happy with the success of others.
You are happy to celebrate their accomplishments. It
is a motivator for you.
9. You take every obstacle as a learning opportunity.
You grab the opportunity to learn whenever you face a
challenge, because you know that you will gain
something from it.
10. You love being around successful people.
You like hanging with successful people — they inspire
you and you can gain insight from them.
11. You love unconditionally.
You love to give and you love with no boundary. You
know that loving unconditionally is the key to true
happiness. You are the happiest when the people you
love are happy.
12. You take on responsibilities and never blame.
You recognize that blaming means you are not in
control of your situation, so you choose to take
control by being responsible for your situation
instead.
13. You love learning new things.
Learning is always one of your top priorities. You know
that continually gaining knowledge and information is
crucial in order to be up to date in today’s society, so
you will never be clueless about what is going on
around you.
14. You are curious about other people.
You like to get to know others, as you know that you
can always learn from their experiences and gain
knowledge from them.
15. You always aim to do better.
You always look towards becoming better at what you
do, so you are excited to improve yourself at any given
chance.
16. You are willing to let go.
You know that dwelling in the past is unproductive so
you let go of what you can’t change, and change what
you are able.
17. You are fearless.
You understand that fear is a choice, and you refuse to
let fear drag you down. Instead, you choose to be
strong and overcome your fear with strength and
positivity.
18. You question what you don’t know.
You ask when you are not certain about something.
You don’t just leave the question unsolved and slips
away, instead you will ask someone who has the
information or you will look up
the information yourself.
19. You see things in a few different perspectives.
You come out with a few different perspectives to
resolve your issue. You are not stuck with one
perspective, because you know that in order to resolve
your issue, you need to see things in a few different
directions so that you can have a clearer view of where
you are standing and where you can go.
20. You work well with others.
You love working with others, and are cooperative.
You know the importance of support when
accomplishing bigger goals.
21. You are passionate about your pursuits.
You love what you do, and you enjoy every moment
you spend working on your pursuit.
22. You understand your strengths and weaknesses.
You recognize what you are good at and polish your
strengths. You acknowledge your weaknesses and
work to improve them.
23. You acknowledge your mistakes.
You are willing to admit to your fault, and you work
harder to be better the next time.
24. You understand the pain of others.
You are compassionate to their suffering. You are able
to see their point of view and understand where they
are coming from.
25. You are content.
You are grateful for what you have, and thankful to the
people who have helped you along the way.
26. You never give up.
Giving up is not an option for you. You know that as
long as you keep fighting, you will get to where you
want to be someday.
27. You believe in yourself.
You understand that there will always be ups and
downs in life, but you strongly believe that your vision
and goals will be achieved eventually.
28. You don’t care what others think of you.
You understand that no matter what you do, there will
always be negative people around, and you are not
going to be affected by their judgements as long as
you know what you are doing is right for you.
29. You take criticism positively.
Criticism is for you, a great resource to improve
yourself. You don’t take it personally, and instead, you
use it as a guideline to better yourself.
30. You love the person you see in your mirror.
You love yourself. You know the importance of self-
love, that in order to be loved by others, you have
to love yourself first.
You might not see yourself having all 30 signs at this
moment, but don’t worry. You definitely already have
some of the qualities right now, and as long as you are
constantly working to improve yourself, you will
eventually get to the rest of the list. Keep moving
positively and you will get better as you go.
magazines, in newspapers, and on the internet. What
qualities do these successful people possess that
bring them to their success? All successful people have
a set of characteristics and threads that enable them
to succeed.
Here are 30 signs that
show you are going to be
highly successful:
1. You can adapt to
change.
There will be times when
you know you have to
change, in order to move
forward when things are
not working as well as they
use to. You are not
affected negatively by any
changes that come your
way, instead you adapt to
the change and are flexible about it.
2. You are not one to complain.
You recognize that complaining is energy draining and
it does not bring you to accomplishing any productive
solutions in your situation. You choose to focus on
resolving the problem instead.
3. You spend your time productively.
You manage your time properly and you are always on
time in your meetings and appointments. You
plan your time productively so that you can utilize it
effectively to accomplish your goals.
4. You are self motivated.
You constantly take action and take initiatives without
having to be pushed by others.
5. You never hesitate to do more.
You are willing to do more than the job you have
been given. You know that doing more is an
opportunity for you to practice more, and also a way
to build your reputation.
6. You are willing to help others.
You understand that everybody needed help at some
point. As long as you are able, you are willing to lend a
helping hand to others.
7. You forgive.
You do not hold grudges or resent the people who
have hurt you in the past. You take the experience as a
lesson to be learned and thank them for making you a
stronger person.
8. You are happy with the success of others.
You are happy to celebrate their accomplishments. It
is a motivator for you.
9. You take every obstacle as a learning opportunity.
You grab the opportunity to learn whenever you face a
challenge, because you know that you will gain
something from it.
10. You love being around successful people.
You like hanging with successful people — they inspire
you and you can gain insight from them.
11. You love unconditionally.
You love to give and you love with no boundary. You
know that loving unconditionally is the key to true
happiness. You are the happiest when the people you
love are happy.
12. You take on responsibilities and never blame.
You recognize that blaming means you are not in
control of your situation, so you choose to take
control by being responsible for your situation
instead.
13. You love learning new things.
Learning is always one of your top priorities. You know
that continually gaining knowledge and information is
crucial in order to be up to date in today’s society, so
you will never be clueless about what is going on
around you.
14. You are curious about other people.
You like to get to know others, as you know that you
can always learn from their experiences and gain
knowledge from them.
15. You always aim to do better.
You always look towards becoming better at what you
do, so you are excited to improve yourself at any given
chance.
16. You are willing to let go.
You know that dwelling in the past is unproductive so
you let go of what you can’t change, and change what
you are able.
17. You are fearless.
You understand that fear is a choice, and you refuse to
let fear drag you down. Instead, you choose to be
strong and overcome your fear with strength and
positivity.
18. You question what you don’t know.
You ask when you are not certain about something.
You don’t just leave the question unsolved and slips
away, instead you will ask someone who has the
information or you will look up
the information yourself.
19. You see things in a few different perspectives.
You come out with a few different perspectives to
resolve your issue. You are not stuck with one
perspective, because you know that in order to resolve
your issue, you need to see things in a few different
directions so that you can have a clearer view of where
you are standing and where you can go.
20. You work well with others.
You love working with others, and are cooperative.
You know the importance of support when
accomplishing bigger goals.
21. You are passionate about your pursuits.
You love what you do, and you enjoy every moment
you spend working on your pursuit.
22. You understand your strengths and weaknesses.
You recognize what you are good at and polish your
strengths. You acknowledge your weaknesses and
work to improve them.
23. You acknowledge your mistakes.
You are willing to admit to your fault, and you work
harder to be better the next time.
24. You understand the pain of others.
You are compassionate to their suffering. You are able
to see their point of view and understand where they
are coming from.
25. You are content.
You are grateful for what you have, and thankful to the
people who have helped you along the way.
26. You never give up.
Giving up is not an option for you. You know that as
long as you keep fighting, you will get to where you
want to be someday.
27. You believe in yourself.
You understand that there will always be ups and
downs in life, but you strongly believe that your vision
and goals will be achieved eventually.
28. You don’t care what others think of you.
You understand that no matter what you do, there will
always be negative people around, and you are not
going to be affected by their judgements as long as
you know what you are doing is right for you.
29. You take criticism positively.
Criticism is for you, a great resource to improve
yourself. You don’t take it personally, and instead, you
use it as a guideline to better yourself.
30. You love the person you see in your mirror.
You love yourself. You know the importance of self-
love, that in order to be loved by others, you have
to love yourself first.
You might not see yourself having all 30 signs at this
moment, but don’t worry. You definitely already have
some of the qualities right now, and as long as you are
constantly working to improve yourself, you will
eventually get to the rest of the list. Keep moving
positively and you will get better as you go.
WOW!! Prophet’s Prophecy Fails As YoungNigeria Becomes PhD Holder (READ FULL STORY)
As said by the young man in question, this is a unique
motivational story, which all can learn from. Read and
share:
When I was 8 years old, a Prophet came to my house
and after prayers took a look at me and said I will
never do well academically and when its time my
parents should send me to learn trade. I wept that
night because I knew the Vision I saw of myself. My
sister Chinyere came to me and said Nna you can be
whatever you want to be; I believed her. TODAY I am a
graduate of Architecture with Masters and Doctorate
(PhD) degree in the same field, which I graduated in
both with First Class High Honours. Today am one of
the youngest PhD holders in Architectural
Construction Technology from Nigeria, maybe the
youngest and the only one as I was told. Friends
believe in yourself and know you can turn around any
negative Prophesy over your life by keying into your
Vision. I did it by God’s Grace and I know you
can.#MyBirthDayTestimony.
motivational story, which all can learn from. Read and
share:
When I was 8 years old, a Prophet came to my house
and after prayers took a look at me and said I will
never do well academically and when its time my
parents should send me to learn trade. I wept that
night because I knew the Vision I saw of myself. My
sister Chinyere came to me and said Nna you can be
whatever you want to be; I believed her. TODAY I am a
graduate of Architecture with Masters and Doctorate
(PhD) degree in the same field, which I graduated in
both with First Class High Honours. Today am one of
the youngest PhD holders in Architectural
Construction Technology from Nigeria, maybe the
youngest and the only one as I was told. Friends
believe in yourself and know you can turn around any
negative Prophesy over your life by keying into your
Vision. I did it by God’s Grace and I know you
can.#MyBirthDayTestimony.
Monday, May 2, 2016
Common Money Mistakes People Wish TheyRealized In Their 20s
Do you want to be financially secure? Many young
adults in their 20s make money mistakes through lack
of knowledge, which can result in debt and financial
insecurity.
It is important to get on top of your finances now –
check out 10 common money mistakes people wish
they realized in their 20s.
adults in their 20s make money mistakes through lack
of knowledge, which can result in debt and financial
insecurity.
It is important to get on top of your finances now –
check out 10 common money mistakes people wish
they realized in their 20s.
A Word For Every Student (A MUST READ)
I sat down and realize that many will regret the years
they spent as a student not because they never
attended lectures, nor they didn’t do well in their
exams but simply because their thought were
confined around classroom knowledge, our
educational system today indirectly discourage
knowledge outside the school curriculum, a system
were your gift and talent remains dormant and
useless for the time spent in school.
A system were your
success in life is rated by
the Amount of A’s you
make, but have seen and
heard of very brilliant
student or best in classes
that cant afford a good
home, school and shelter
for their family. Many are
discouraged about life
simply because of F. Many
are depressed, many
confused, many wish to
change, many even wants
to drop.
I will gladly advice all both the one gifted with A’s and
those blessed with F’s to start thinking outside the box
of classroom. Be practical about life and knowledge,
be creative, read books, attend seminars, be
innovative, write books, start up a business, contest in
pageantry, form a dance/music club, play politics,
organise shows, learn a skill, learn a handwork , start a
forum, evangelize for the kingdom, work on your self,
learn public speaking, be a computer literate, give
some time to outside classroom event.
It pays and at the end of your stay in school, you might
not come out with the best result but you will come
out enlightened, you might not come out with a 1st
class but you will come out informed and
transformed. You might not be the best student but
you will come out changed, and equipped to face
reality and challenges from life…….
My dear, dare life, question system, try new things,
invent things, discover things and never forget or be
too afraid to say NO to discouragement, obstacles and
depression…
And at the end try to be a graduate religiously,
academically, financially, emotionally, health wise, and
otherwise. So many wish they could go back and make
amendment, wish they learnt things they thought they
were too busy to learn. Now that you are opportuned,
don’t come out a novice.
Until you are able to give your self all the necessary
Information you cant transform others and your
society…..
they spent as a student not because they never
attended lectures, nor they didn’t do well in their
exams but simply because their thought were
confined around classroom knowledge, our
educational system today indirectly discourage
knowledge outside the school curriculum, a system
were your gift and talent remains dormant and
useless for the time spent in school.
A system were your
success in life is rated by
the Amount of A’s you
make, but have seen and
heard of very brilliant
student or best in classes
that cant afford a good
home, school and shelter
for their family. Many are
discouraged about life
simply because of F. Many
are depressed, many
confused, many wish to
change, many even wants
to drop.
I will gladly advice all both the one gifted with A’s and
those blessed with F’s to start thinking outside the box
of classroom. Be practical about life and knowledge,
be creative, read books, attend seminars, be
innovative, write books, start up a business, contest in
pageantry, form a dance/music club, play politics,
organise shows, learn a skill, learn a handwork , start a
forum, evangelize for the kingdom, work on your self,
learn public speaking, be a computer literate, give
some time to outside classroom event.
It pays and at the end of your stay in school, you might
not come out with the best result but you will come
out enlightened, you might not come out with a 1st
class but you will come out informed and
transformed. You might not be the best student but
you will come out changed, and equipped to face
reality and challenges from life…….
My dear, dare life, question system, try new things,
invent things, discover things and never forget or be
too afraid to say NO to discouragement, obstacles and
depression…
And at the end try to be a graduate religiously,
academically, financially, emotionally, health wise, and
otherwise. So many wish they could go back and make
amendment, wish they learnt things they thought they
were too busy to learn. Now that you are opportuned,
don’t come out a novice.
Until you are able to give your self all the necessary
Information you cant transform others and your
society…..
Saturday, April 30, 2016
10 Students You Will Meet At Result CheckingBoard
This write up is based on my observations. I have
met quite a few students clustered around result
checking board and below are my
observationsTake a cup of yoyo bitter & read
meticulous
1. The ones who will
keep opening their
mouth after checking
their results. They will
start explaining how
easy the questions
were, how they
finished b4 time and
how they attempted
all the questions
properly. They will
start bad mouthing
the lecturer, saying
the lecturer is
economical giving out
marks and that he
deliberately marked them down
2. The ones who will start raining curses on a
lecturer the moment they realize they got D, and
will start praising themselves when they get an A
in the course
3. The ones who will put their hands on their
hand and start crying as if dey just lost a relative
( common among the female folks ;D )
4. The ones who will check their results and start
blaming their failure on insufficient time during
the exam
5. [The ones who will check their results and
would act like they have passed but look at them
in the face and you would see discomfort and
failure registered on their faces ;D
6. The ones who have already crammed the
matric number of most students. They come
under the disguise of checking their results
7. The ones who are there to consolate other
people.. Either they pass or fail, no one knows
8. The ones who will come and stay few miles
away from the board expecting students to
vacate the board before they can check because
they don’t want ppl to know their grades
9. The ones will check their results without even
saying anything, off they go.. Either they fail or
pass, you will never know ;D
10. The ones who will check their results and
start boasting. ( I know I will get an A). Many at
times, they will be the last person to vacate the
result check board because they want to show to
their colleges how well they have performed
met quite a few students clustered around result
checking board and below are my
observationsTake a cup of yoyo bitter & read
meticulous
1. The ones who will
keep opening their
mouth after checking
their results. They will
start explaining how
easy the questions
were, how they
finished b4 time and
how they attempted
all the questions
properly. They will
start bad mouthing
the lecturer, saying
the lecturer is
economical giving out
marks and that he
deliberately marked them down
2. The ones who will start raining curses on a
lecturer the moment they realize they got D, and
will start praising themselves when they get an A
in the course
3. The ones who will put their hands on their
hand and start crying as if dey just lost a relative
( common among the female folks ;D )
4. The ones who will check their results and start
blaming their failure on insufficient time during
the exam
5. [The ones who will check their results and
would act like they have passed but look at them
in the face and you would see discomfort and
failure registered on their faces ;D
6. The ones who have already crammed the
matric number of most students. They come
under the disguise of checking their results
7. The ones who are there to consolate other
people.. Either they pass or fail, no one knows
8. The ones who will come and stay few miles
away from the board expecting students to
vacate the board before they can check because
they don’t want ppl to know their grades
9. The ones will check their results without even
saying anything, off they go.. Either they fail or
pass, you will never know ;D
10. The ones who will check their results and
start boasting. ( I know I will get an A). Many at
times, they will be the last person to vacate the
result check board because they want to show to
their colleges how well they have performed
reasons you should do School Practicals/assingments byyourself
We always complain that most of our education is
theoretical in Nigeria with little emphasis on practical
aspects. However, the little emphasis on practicals,
students do not still use wisely. Many in my
experience, copy practical reports and miss practical
classes. Why should you however take practicals
serious and avoid copying?
1. Good grades
When you actually carry
out your practical by
yourself, it shows in your
practical outcome and
results. Therefore the
examiner is likely to give
you higher grades.
2. Knowledge
As they say, no knowledge
gained today is a waste.
When you apply yourself
diligently and carry out the
practical, the knowledge
you gain in the process is
invaluable to you and to the society. You will come out
a graduate who knows his/her onions.
3. Job Opportunities
Several graduates miss out on job offers, because they
did not take practical class seriously enough. While
your certificate might be enough to guarantee you an
interview or even get the job. practical knowledge in
your field of study is one thing that will keep you there.
4. Entrepreneurship
So many of the courses studied in Nigerian
Universities can be transformed into self employment.
However, the bulk of students do not know enough to
take advantage of this avenues. A student who takes
practical classes seriously will know enough to
guarantee him/her self sustaining employment.
theoretical in Nigeria with little emphasis on practical
aspects. However, the little emphasis on practicals,
students do not still use wisely. Many in my
experience, copy practical reports and miss practical
classes. Why should you however take practicals
serious and avoid copying?
1. Good grades
When you actually carry
out your practical by
yourself, it shows in your
practical outcome and
results. Therefore the
examiner is likely to give
you higher grades.
2. Knowledge
As they say, no knowledge
gained today is a waste.
When you apply yourself
diligently and carry out the
practical, the knowledge
you gain in the process is
invaluable to you and to the society. You will come out
a graduate who knows his/her onions.
3. Job Opportunities
Several graduates miss out on job offers, because they
did not take practical class seriously enough. While
your certificate might be enough to guarantee you an
interview or even get the job. practical knowledge in
your field of study is one thing that will keep you there.
4. Entrepreneurship
So many of the courses studied in Nigerian
Universities can be transformed into self employment.
However, the bulk of students do not know enough to
take advantage of this avenues. A student who takes
practical classes seriously will know enough to
guarantee him/her self sustaining employment.
Friday, April 29, 2016
Ksu boy and gal palava : Steps On How To Approach A Lady In PublicAnd Win Her Heart
Some men are naturally shy while some
don’t even know how to start. The thing is,
wooing a girl in public is simple and a lot
easier than when she’s alone. Here, we have
put this down to help you be a man, Lol.
Read carefully to the end.
don’t even know how to start. The thing is,
wooing a girl in public is simple and a lot
easier than when she’s alone. Here, we have
put this down to help you be a man, Lol.
Read carefully to the end.
Wednesday, April 27, 2016
Sex and relationship : A WORD FOR THE LADIES
What he needs from you as his lady is your support
and loyalty and he will have the mind to go through
wall for you. When was the last time you asked him
questions about how well his job is going, when last
did you ask him how well his future plans are falling
into place.
and loyalty and he will have the mind to go through
wall for you. When was the last time you asked him
questions about how well his job is going, when last
did you ask him how well his future plans are falling
into place.
Tuesday, April 26, 2016
Things You Need To Stop Doing If You Want To BeSuccessful
“Success seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes,but they don’t quit.” – Conrad Hilton
The differences between you and successful people
are not as drastic as you think. There are simple
choices that can be made everyday towards success. If
you’re thinking it’s time to get your life together, here
are eight simple things you need to stop doing if you
want to be successful:
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