The
truth is that any girl that brings her stuffs to stay in
your house in school must have a secrete plan. Now,
you ain’t married yet she stays with you in your one-
room apartment or probably, a bed-sitter. You may
think you are having a swell time, but my guy, let me
tell you, you are definitely in for it!!! When a guy allows
his girlfriend to stay with him in school, he is bound to
do the following 5 foolish things:
1) You spend the hard-earned money of your parents
or guardians to rent an apartment and she packs in.
She will save the money that has been given to her and
use it to better her life! You go dey there dey form
‘married man’ I guess you have never worked for
money before so you don’t freaking know what it
means to cough out thousands or hundreds of
thousands to rent an apartment! I know guys who
wouldn’t allow their younger ones stay with them in
school, but dem fit pay continuously for an apartment
for dem and their girlfriends from 100L to final year.
What a pity!!!
2) You start feeding her! Deh say small pikin wey wan
carry e papa for shoulder, na big blokos go suffocate
am!!! When you decide to live like a married man,
you must also accept the responsibilities of a married
man! Simple. How can you be taking care of somebody
when you are still being taken care of? I don’t get it.
Most girls who find themselves in such position would
definitely pray it lasts till they sit for their degree
exams! She buys Brazilian hairs, jewelry, shoes, bags,
clothes, etc with her up-keep money And you? You
use yours to buy breads, fry eggs and make tea for the
both of you! Not forgetting that her friends will still
come and eat. When will you have sense then?
3) If both of you are in the same dept., you end up
doing assignments for her, writing tests and exams for
her! Didn’t God give her brain? There’s a high
possibility that she would graduate with a 2.1 and you,
a 2.2 or a 3rd class because God must surely punish
you for cheating and impersonating
4) You lose your privacy and the opportunity to
interact and associate with other reasonable, focused
and ambitious students on campus! Your friends take
precaution before they visit you. You are stuck with
just one person. Why do you think young people are
always encouraged to reach out to and make friends
with members of the opposite sex far from the time
they would be getting married? I ask you, Papa
Lotanna!!! Yes, that’s who you are since you have
decided to get married in school without the
knowledge of your parents. That’s why I still prefer
private universities. Things like cohabiting hardly take
place!
5) Foolishly thinking that both of you will get married
at last! Most of the guys I knew personally in the
university who cohabited with their girlfriends were
later dumped or jilted after graduation. Reason: those
girls would not want to lose their privacy normally
living with a guy from 100L to final year but they
decided to cohabit to save their resources and live on
the guys’ resources I told you, these girls have plans
and you are not part of their plans…just one of the
steps on the ladder for those plans to be achieved!!!
So when will you have sense, I asked again?
Go to school, study very hard, learn a trade or skill as
you are schooling. Make adequate plans for life after
graduation. Stop making marriage plans with your that
babe that cohabits with you. If you do, you do, you
either day-dreaming or living in a fool’s paradise! You
are free to have girlfriend because you are mature but
don’t allow them cohabit with you!
A word is enough for the wise…peace to ya’ all.
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