9 Characteristics Of Highly Desirable Women
The dictionaries define “Desirable” as “worth having or
wanting; pleasant, excellent or fine.”
Any man or woman who
has dreamed of a future
has probably created an
image of what he or she
would desire most in
their partner. And most
women have probably
wished to be more
desirable at some point.
While the world keeps
hankering over what
exactly are the
characteristics of highly
desirable women, the
truth is that we can only
speculate. The definition
will keep evolving.
However, we can safely say that highly desirable
women will likely have the following nine
characteristics.
1. They don’t chase people
Highly desirable women would rather chase their own
awesomeness, because they know running after
people is just a waste of time. They also know that it is
a much better idea to become better versions of their
own selves. The world will take notice when they
progress in their own lives.
They don’t have
time for such
chases because
they are just too
busy creating a
better life for
themselves. That’s
what makes a
woman more
desirable — that
carefree, confident
attitude. They are
complete in
themselves.
2. They are in
control of
their emotions
You won’t find desirable women moping about every
bad relationship or failure in their lives. Instead, they
are always in control of their emotions. They don’t
waste their time and energy in harboring useless
emotions that won’t bring them progress.
Simply put, desirable women would much rather be a
shoulder when needed than be a constant cry baby.
3. They avoid gossip
Desirable women would rather use their time
productively than for indulging in petty gossip. Gossip
and too much talking creates drama. Desirable women
know this. Petty gossip, useless talking, and drama is
for school girls — not the desirable women that we
look up to.
4. They are not attention seekers
You will not see desirable women posting selfies
constantly or changing their relationship statuses on
social media with every crush. They don’t like to
spam people with such trivialities. They would much
rather be known and talked about for their real and
meaningful achievements.
They believe in earning attention from like-minded
people, not snatching it with constant updates on the
happenings in their lives. They earn respect instead of
asking for it. They believe in maintaining a mystery
about their lives which only selected people can have
access to.
5. They don’t lose themselves in their
relationships
It’s not that they hold back. Desirable women don’t
lose themselves to create happiness for someone else.
They have a life of their own that goes beyond the
relationship. They don’t cling to their boyfriends or
girlfriends constantly.
They don’t lose sight of their goals and dreams for
love. They don’t lose their identity. Desirable women
make smart decisions about how much time they are
willing to devote to their relationships and to their
goals. They set their priorities. They let their
relationships add to their lives — not become their
whole lives.
6. They have hobbies and passions
Desirable women make massive efforts to become
better at their hobbies and passions. You won’t find
these women constantly procrastinating. They find out
what they love doing and do it with finesse.
Desirable women don’t waste their lives with mindless
addictions, like staring at their mobile phones all day.
They use their time to take up hobbies and work on
improving. Some of the most desirable women are the
ones who care deeply about their hobbies. It defines
them and makes them more interesting people.
7. They are fiercely intelligent
Intelligence does not always refer to IQ. Desirable
women are fiercely intelligent in terms of their
understanding of the world and its people. They have
a certain kind of wisdom that comes from experience,
from a plethora of mistakes and a life full of lessons.
They have impeccable understanding of life and
themselves — something that really adds to their
desirability. They are no strangers to deep
conversation.
8. They are always graceful
Women who understand and take pride in their
womenhood are the ones that know that grace and
elegance are not qualities you compromise with. It’s
not about their appearance but their aura. What
makes them highly desirable is that they don’t
worry about their physical shortcomings. They fix
what they can and carry themselves with elegance and
charm that only a lady can possess.
They dress well and know how to exude confidence.
What makes this all the more easier is that desirable
women know that grace does not come with
expensive fashion choices. It comes with self
confidence.
9. They are brilliant communicators
They have clarity of thought and it shows in the words
they choose, no matter which language those words
are in. The confidence that they exude can easily win
over hearts. They are logical with the right mix of
rationality and emotion. Desirable women don’t
overdo it.
They will let you talk, make you feel wanted, hear you
with compassion, and show genuineness in their
interactions. They know how important it is to be a
good communicator and they also know what it takes
to be one.
These are some of the characteristics of highly
desirable women. Of course, there are many other
traits that can be deemed “desirable.”
Nevertheless, these are a few characteristics that will
always draw us in.
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